han101 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 It's only been a week since me and my partner of 3 years split. It was a mutual split although I still love him. He said that he loves me as a friend although he for some reason wants to catch up & talk about it all in two weeks. This is torturing me! Obviously, I'm going to hold onto him if he wants to talk in two weeks.. But I'm unsure why he wants to catch up then? He has completely removed me from social networking and deleted all traces of me from his life, including selling a ticket over seas we had booked together. Help! Should I let go or is there a reason to hold on?
gotye Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 no maybe you shouldn't even see in two weeks just repeat in your head; it's over, move on I come up with a mantra every day
mike588 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 It's only been a week since me and my partner of 3 years split. It was a mutual split although I still love him. He said that he loves me as a friend although he for some reason wants to catch up & talk about it all in two weeks. This is torturing me! Obviously, I'm going to hold onto him if he wants to talk in two weeks.. But I'm unsure why he wants to catch up then? He has completely removed me from social networking and deleted all traces of me from his life, including selling a ticket over seas we had booked together. Help! Should I let go or is there a reason to hold on? Let go....No reason to hold on. He's found someone else.....sorry.
Author han101 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 He hasn't found someone else, I know him well enough to know that. It's so hard moving on, how do people do this!
budley12 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 i feel like everyone is so negative on this forum in terms of relationships. Like I understand that after a relationship is over one needs time away to heal and really look at things... but i have heard stories of love being put back together with the same couple.
mike588 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 i feel like everyone is so negative on this forum in terms of relationships. Like I understand that after a relationship is over one needs time away to heal and really look at things... but i have heard stories of love being put back together with the same couple. Not everyone on this site is being negative...Were offering our advise from experience and giving the ..Cold Hard Truth. Alot of times people don't want to hear it...they come here grasping for straws....looking for hope....wanting to hear that their ex. will come back. Sometimes they do...most of the times they don't....and if they do.....usually it doesn't last long because the root of the problem hasn't been addressed.
budley12 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 yeah you could be right. I cannot really say because I have only been in one relationship which I am still not over. Actually I am hurting still quite badly and am still in love. I just feel like it would be nice to have a "glimpse" of hope every once in awhile... I am probably just hoping to see this so I can create this hope for me... who knows.
Laveli Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I know that feel OP, last week at this time we hadour big argument where i ended it. I saw her once the last week where i went to pick up my stuff, and we both had watery eyes. It's very hard, very hard. I have thought about texting/calling her over 100 times during the last week.
mike588 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 yeah you could be right. I cannot really say because I have only been in one relationship which I am still not over. Actually I am hurting still quite badly and am still in love. I just feel like it would be nice to have a "glimpse" of hope every once in awhile... I am probably just hoping to see this so I can create this hope for me... who knows. We all have that "glimpse" of hope that they will come back and everything will be perfect....that it will work this time. You've been in only one relationship and your still hurting? We have all been there....learn from it...it's a learning and growing experience. You WILL get thru it a wiser person!!
budley12 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 We all have that "glimpse" of hope that they will come back and everything will be perfect....that it will work this time. You've been in only one relationship and your still hurting? We have all been there....learn from it...it's a learning and growing experience. You WILL get thru it a wiser person!! This relationship was almost 3 years though. we lived together in the same dorm. traveled the country many times. talked about marriage, our future. I even came out for this kid... I was hoping it would be the fairy tale type of ending. We were each others first relationships and loves...
Author han101 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 I understand this. We always talked about getting married and his family became my family. It's hard, but there isn't a second chance and there's a reason that it didn't work out. I really believe that as hard as it is and as much as it hurts... There will be a light at the end of this long lonely tunnel! I guess it's just about turning I your friends and family for support and not hanging around home too often.. Being alone intensifies everything..
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