PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 This was the girl who wanted to go out last saturday night and she was not my type at all-lol So can you imagine how pissed I would have been if I had decided to go out last week at the last minute? I ordered my dinner to go since she didn't turn me on and she kept asking me throughout the date..."you are not going to eat your dinner" lol Then she haad the nerve to say...."We can do the walk in the park some other time because I;m so tired-LOL My response.."I had forgot all about the park" So I won't be text her anymore or calling because she just came off as a 42 year old and was 33. She seemed 15 years older than the girl I met last night. I'm just stunned last night the attractive girl offered to PAY for my food and tonight the unattractive girl expected me to pay for hers????????????? LMAO-lol
ascendotum Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I ordered my dinner to go since she didn't turn me on Thats one advantage to going on a date to a take away meal place. "Okay, my chicken chow mein is now here, we got to wrap this up, it was nice meeting you, good luck." lol If you are wary of spending $ on someone you don't like, try to keep the first meet less formal like at a bar/pub or coffee shop after work, though if its always for saturday nights then its going to be more likely orientated around a meal. How come you went out with a girl thats not your type, especially after the previous week's girl, no luck with a follow up date with her?
sid3 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 This was the girl who wanted to go out last saturday night and she was not my type at all-lol So can you imagine how pissed I would have been if I had decided to go out last week at the last minute? I ordered my dinner to go since she didn't turn me on and she kept asking me throughout the date..."you are not going to eat your dinner" lol Then she haad the nerve to say...."We can do the walk in the park some other time because I;m so tired-LOL My response.."I had forgot all about the park" So I won't be text her anymore or calling because she just came off as a 42 year old and was 33. She seemed 15 years older than the girl I met last night. I'm just stunned last night the attractive girl offered to PAY for my food and tonight the unattractive girl expected me to pay for hers????????????? LMAO-lol So went from being seconds away from take out Chinese food last night to getting your dinner to go tonite. You're inviting bad karma. Not good, especially now that you're smitten with last nights date.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 I ordered my dinner to go since she didn't turn me on Thats one advantage to going on a date to a take away meal place. "Okay, my chicken chow mein is now here, we got to wrap this up, it was nice meeting you, good luck." lol If you are wary of spending $ on someone you don't like, try to keep the first meet less formal like at a bar/pub or coffee shop after work, though if its always for saturday nights then its going to be more likely orientated around a meal. How come you went out with a girl thats not your type, especially after the previous week's girl, no luck with a follow up date with her? She didn't look like her photo on OKC. But I think she wasn't going to have a fair shot anyway because the girl last night was so HOT-lol Maybe if I had met her last week I would not have felt the way I did.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 So went from being seconds away from take out Chinese food last night to getting your dinner to go tonite. You're inviting bad karma. Not good, especially now that you're smitten with last nights date. Because I did not want to be around her that long so I just decided to eat dinner when I arrived home. Then she had the nerve to talk about a walk in the park being some other time-lol It ain't going to be no walk in the park because I'm not calling you again. lol That's what I said in my head
sid3 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 She didn't look like her photo on OKC. But I think she wasn't going to have a fair shot anyway because the girl last night was so HOT-lol Maybe if I had met her last week I would not have felt the way I did. yeah I think we can take that to the bank
lilyblue Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Then she had the nerve to talk about a walk in the park being some other time-lol The nerve?
ascendotum Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Ok. I just realised the attractive girl who offered to pay was only a night ago, so you are still in the running there. If you meet in a restaurant its a bit brutal to order 'to go for one' unless she really misrepresented herself. Don't feel obliged to pay if you have no interest in ever seeing the woman again, but I think you should make the date just for a drink a bit earlier and then have the option to go on to dinner if you like the woman. 1
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 Ok. I just realised the attractive girl who offered to pay was only a night ago, so you are still in the running there. If you meet in a restaurant its a bit brutal to order 'to go for one' unless she really misrepresented herself. Don't feel obliged to pay if you have no interest in ever seeing the woman again, but I think you should make the date just for a drink a bit earlier and then have the option to go on to dinner if you like the woman. Yeah maybe I can do that next time. But a woman should be prepared to pay for her own food until the guy decides to pay for it. You just don't assume he is going to pay and only be average looking on top of it.
sid3 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Yeah maybe I can do that next time. But a woman should be prepared to pay for her own food until the guy decides to pay for it. You just don't assume he is going to pay and only be average looking on top of it. Maybe that's what the walk in the park was about
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 Maybe that's what the walk in the park was about I don't follow
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 Oh my gawd lol....wow. I made sure I let her order first so I could make sure she didn't leave the cash register like the other girl did last summer-lol The other girl last summer order her stuff and sat down and the cashier is waiting to add my order to hers. NOT TONIGHT!!!
Star Gazer Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I feel really bad for all the other guys in Philadelphia. Now I understand where their reputation comes from. 3
sid3 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I don't follow That's ok.. that doesn't effect the entertainment value.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 Sorry, P-Dude... This is funny stuff, I can't imagine making a date pay for her meal and yours too? to funny. No let me clear it up. Last night I was on a date with a pretty girl and she was about to pay for my food until I stopped her Tonight I was on a date with someone who was ok looking and assumed I was going to pay for her food. Shouldn't that have been the other way around?-lol
johan Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Another thread started by the least impressive person on LS. 2
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 So she is not attractive to you and you think she should pay for your dinner. I dunno, man...I'd pay no matter if the date is going well or not...it's just good Mo-Jo in my world, to do that. No, if I think she is not attractive then she should pay for her OWN DINNER-lol If I know I don't want to see her again then why would I pay?
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 To be a freakin gentlemen! So I'm supposed to subtract money from my account when I don't like someone and when I like someone?
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 In my area it is custom to pay for the date(being the man) no matter if no sparks fly so my answer would be yes. I just cannot imagine making a date pay her own way:laugh:...I'd be too embarrassed to be even looking at her. I thought it was up to the guy whether he was going to pay since it's his money. I mean if she lied about her looks then why should he still be obligated to pay?
oaks Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I ordered my dinner to go since she didn't turn me on and she kept asking me throughout the date..."you are not going to eat your dinner" lol Then she haad the nerve to say...."We can do the walk in the park some other time because I;m so tired-LOL Translation: "I thought we were going for dinner. Why aren't you eating? Don't you want to be here? In that case I don't want to walk in the park with you now anyway." But, for all the fun people (sometimes me, too) are poking at you, you're getting to go on dates. Congrats! Now, call the hot girl from Friday to remind her that you're keen to see her again before some other guy snaps her up.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 Translation: "I thought we were going for dinner. Why aren't you eating? Don't you want to be here? In that case I don't want to walk in the park with you now anyway." But, for all the fun people (sometimes me, too) are poking at you, you're getting to go on dates. Congrats! Now, call the hot girl from Friday to remind her that you're keen to see her again before some other guy snaps her up. I know, I definitely want to see her naked before Mid-April-lol That girl last night I could not picture being intimate with and I know I;'m not the only who checks out after that's confirmed
Mantis Toboggan Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 In my area it is custom to pay for the date(being the man) no matter if no sparks fly so my answer would be yes. I just cannot imagine making a date pay her own way:laugh:...I'd be too embarrassed to be even looking at her. It sounds like you're rewarding the woman for simply sitting down with you. Aren't you also a prize that should be rewarded? Seems like you're the one who is obligated to impress her, while the woman simply has to show up.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 It sounds like you're rewarding the woman for simply sitting down with you. Aren't you also a prize that should be rewarded? Seems like you're the one who is obligated to impress her, while the woman simply has to show up. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just don't pay because she showed up, I pay when I want to see her again and like what I see. If there is no attraction then why am I paying?-lol
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