LostGirl11 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 How would you feel if your boyfriend/husband worked with someone that has the hots for them? Would you be worried?
jdavid32 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 In my case it would be my GF or Wife, but as long as you trust him, I wouldn't worry about it. No matter where you go, work, etc, someone is always going to have the hots for either you or him, and if you will worry yourself mad if you keep thinking of it and it will cause problems. You just have to trust that he will not initiate anything, and if initiated by the other person, will say, sorry Im not on available. But seriously, Life is full of people that are always going to want you, just the way it is, just believe that your partner is faithful. Trust until someone gives you a reason not too, and don't worry yourself with all the little things, concentrate on the good things and make the both of you happy!!
FitChick Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Just because one person wants someone doesn't mean that other person feels the same. It's called unrequited love. I'd make sure my man felt loved and appreciated, though, so he wouldn't have any excuses for hanky panky.
emily_m Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Not at all! I'd be flattered. You should be secure enough in yourself and in your relationship for it not to be an issue. Likewise, just because someone is in a relationship, it doesn't mean they don't still find people attractive. It's what they do, or don't do, about it that matters.
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