sporteguy03 Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 Hi Guys, I had recently been talking to this girl who I really liked. She is very organized goes to Church regularly etc. Anyways I wanted to kind of break the ice by volunteering for a few hours at a food bank with her. She signed up online as I told her to, I know she did because I saw the list last night in the coordinator's hands. She never showed. I was a little concerned so I called her left a vm saying we missed her tonight and that I hope she is ok and hope to talk to her soon. She has not called nor told me why she did not show. Its not that she didn't show that bothers, its she never called and said sorry I can't go. Its like I'm not very important to her. Ironically she said she will push herself to go to church even when shes tired yet when it comes to meeting up she fails to come. If I was in her position I would call at the very least. I just find behavior like this unacceptable it really irratates me, how do you feel about this?
Paradise Posted June 11, 2004 Posted June 11, 2004 Maybe b/c she don't know how to tell you she doesn't want to hang around with you. Try asking her again see what happens.
stephysthebest Posted June 11, 2004 Posted June 11, 2004 Let us re-evaluate this situation. Most of the time people hate my attitude because I am blunt. She told you that she was comming and then didn't show up or call because she didn't want to go. She is pathetic, but on the other hand people like the sugar coating so much they just eat it up. If someone asks me to help them move or something like hypothetical like that and I just said no... well they want to hear you make an excuse for them to why you can't. I just say no, because I do not want to help you move. But most people love the lie more than the truth.
Cupcake Posted June 11, 2004 Posted June 11, 2004 I agree with Stephysthebest. This female really is pathetic. She obviously can't speak her mind. I don't think she's interested in you. She's really not worth your time. If this is the way she's starting out, you know how she will continue to act in the future. You really don't want this type of frustration in your life. Forget about her and move on.
tiki Posted June 11, 2004 Posted June 11, 2004 I say give her the bennie of the doubt until you hear it from her. You'd be really sad if you found out she had a family emergency or something. If you don't get a response after a true opportunity to give you one...then call her unreliable or whatever.
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