GF says it's all her fault

[Laveli]

So after 4 days of NC i contacted her last night about getting my stuff. Sheagreed, so when i got there i asked if i can talk to her few minutes. I toldher right off that bat i am not here to convince you into working things out,but just to be friends. (But hoping we work it out someday)

 

Well i started asking how her day was, and how things were going with her,and i noticed her eyes watering. Then she started talking and i had wateryeyes. I asked her if she had water, she said there were some in her car whichshe went and got it.

 

I apologized for few of the things i had done wrong in the relationship; shesaid you don’t need to apologize. It is all her fault, and she doesn’t deservea man like you. She had done my laundry and nicely folded all my clothes, so ipicked it up after 15 min of talking to her and was heading out the door. Shesaid you don’t have to leave right now with watery eyes, I said I need to gonow. She walked me to my car and asked me for a hug which i gave her.

 

Thoughts? please

[Chi townD]

I think you ended the best way you could ask for. No blaming, no finger pointing, no yelling, no arguing. Very classy (even though it doesn't take away your pain). I think you can walk away with your head held high.

 

Time to close this chapter of your life and open a new one.

[Laveli]

I will try to actively post what i go through on here if anyone is interested. Last week at this time we had our big argument and i decided to end it.

 

I want to text her and tell her how much i miss her, and talk to her again. This is the worst feeling i've had in the last few days.

[MarlaOryx]

You'll keep feeling this bad if you don't stick to NC for at least 3 weeks. Every time you talk to her, you think you will feel better, but you will actually feel worse afterward.

 

One thing I've learned, when someone says they're not good enough for you. Believe them.