A perfect Long Distance relationship with my dream girl ended by her father...

[airsftdude]

I met this girl on myyearbook.com & we messaged for awhile before exchanging numbers. We started texting in around September of 2011. We video chatted on ooVoo for the first in early October with no audio for about 4hrs. In October, we started talking on the phone every weekend and texting every day. She is 16, i turned 19 last week. Shes from WV, im from NY. After a few phone convos we started video chatting more and talked on the phone during it so we had audio and eventually we were video chatting every weekend for the next few weeks, we really started falling for each other. I have never had a girlfriend before & i felt weird telling her how beautiful & amazing she was at first & she was incredibly understanding & helped me get over my shyness. In like November she asked how serious i was about all of this & we both decided we wanted to be together so badly that we would wait for each other & when she turned 18 we would meet for the first time and see each other as often as possible. By December, wed grown so close that we agreed that we were so crazy about each other that we were almost in love & that wed be head over heels for each other after our first official date. She made me a video for Valentines Day. Well, last Monday, (March 12th) her dad went on her youtube account & saw it & found out about us. Tuesday, she got home from school & textd me that her dad wants us to stop talking & theres nothing she can do & as much as she wouldve loved for us to be together its just not gonna work. & she couldnt promise me that she would wait for me cuz it wont work. I said il message her on youtube in a couple weeks & she said "fine...talk to me then...i have to go..." and thats it. Now im blocked on FB & her phone & ipod were taken away. Idk what to do. We had such intense feelings for each other &i dont want to give up on her. She is everything i want in a girl, she is top 3 in her class, she doesnt smoke, drink or do drugs & thinks all 3 are gross and unattractive (as do i), shes gorgeous, is the most understanding person ever, & wants to keep her V-Card til shes with sm1 she knos shell marry. & she has an incredibly fun/intersting personality. Idk what to do, i want no one else...But i cant get over all the little things she did. Like how her voice would change when shed assure me i dont need to worry about things cuz i have her or that she doesnt want any1 else or when shed call me "boo boo" and as goofy of a name as that is, i loved it. I miss the way shed kinda hide her face and blush and giggle when i complemented her or how shed smile and point at herself when i told her im less shy and theres only one reason or when i told her i feel more confident in public because iv already found "The One" when other people spend longer looking with no success and shed just blush and smile. I miss when shed say similar things or just act all cute and adorable. Dang i miss everything about her and i dont wanna give that up. I cant picture her or me with anyone else and i dont want to. I dont want to get over her or forget her, i just wanna kno that we can still be together someday just like we planned....im sure its obvious to most of you but idk what to do. She managed to text me yesterday and said her parents have cooled down but still arent ok with it cuz of her age. She also said with the way things are now, she doesnt see us together in the future which i dont understand cuz if we were to promise to wait for each other then thered be no issue as her parents would be ok with it if she was out of high school. She is always incredibly optimistic about everything, except this it seems now. Idk what to do

Edited March 17, 2012 by airsftdude

[FitChick]

She is underage. End of story!

 

P.S. Learn to make paragraphs and maybe more people will read your novel. Better yet, go to college and get a degree and make something of yourself. Then her parents will look upon you more favorably.