Hesham_3del Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 (edited) Hello, I will go straight into the topic There is a girl in the class I attend with her which looks often at me and all what I want to know what this means I'm a shy guy and after a couple of search over yahoo answers, I found that either the girl is attracted to me or I'm a wired looking guy I'm a good looking guy, and many people tells me that you are somehow cute here is one of the best answers I came across "if she did it often (more than a couple of times) she must be attracted to you. often girls don't smile, i often don't unless i already know the guy or i have at least spoken to him. often shy girls look but don't smile too. i'd probably just wait and see what she does over the next few classes you have together, then go from there." I will start my story now, the above part was only introduction Day 1 I wasn't putting the issue in my mind, and I was somehow bad looking this day, I didn't shave my mustache nor my beard so I was not looking good, at least for me, but my clothes was in a good looking form, we had 2 or 3 eye contacts this day only. Day 2 I was joking with my friends outside before entering the class and she was outside also, we had 1 or 2 eye contacts and I'm somehow sure that it was looking at me while I'm chatting with my friends, as I have a wide angle of view. The class is 2 sessions after each other and she missed the 1st one that day, the disks that day was like this http://img641.imageshack.us/img641/5899/111psi.jpg Legend :- - :- Disk -(1) :- Where I was sitting -(2) :- Where she then sat I was sitting in disk "-(1)", when the 2nd class was about to begin and after chatting with my friends as I stated above, as the mentioned above was before the 2nd session, she tried to sit beside me or something like this, it's wired to say something like this I know, but it's a brave move from her and I'm not sure if she saw if I sitting in the position or not. For my bad luck, the class was busy and all people are trying to sit in the same time and this beside that and you know the rest for sure, my friend sat beside me and she was angry and yelled some words I didn't understand but what came to my mind is this !@#$%^&*!. She sat in disk "-(2)" and also had 1 or 2 eye contact and I was somehow sure again that she was looking at me and I was noticing that without me looking at her. Day 3 The disks was like that http://img267.imageshack.us/img267/1151/222rcm.jpg Legend :- - :- Disk -(1) :- Where I was sitting -(2) :- Where she sat 1st -(3) :- Where she sat 2nd 1st Session :- I entered that class and sat in the disk "-(1)" as I like to sit and behind me the wall. She came in and there was somehow some free disks to sit in, but she sat behind me " What I want to say in that maybe she like to sit and the wall is behind her like me, why not ?! " The session started but and the teacher said something while she was busy for a seconds, so asked me did he say something, I told her no. She had a word that she didn't understand it and I told her about it's meaning and this was the 2nd contact between me and her for the 1st session. 2nd Session :- Someone sat in the disk that she was sitting in, so she sat in disk "-(3)". We had some eye contact but there was a eye contact I can't forget, usually the eye contact is for milliseconds, but this eye contact for 1 or 2 seconds and then I waved my head away from her eyes, but her face was normal looking, no smiles, no wired looking, just a normal face. We are done for now, as the last sessions was yesterday. Hint :- She was sitting with a guy in the 1st and 2nd session and the break between the two sessions and I saw them kidding, but what about me ?! ------------------------------------------------------------ 1) Is the girl attracted to me ?! If yes, could you please clarify on what basis you said "Yes" ?! 2) A friend told me that she is not a good girl and want any guy to date him, is there a chance for that ?! 3) How can I deal with her ?! 4) Is she really trying to open a discussion with me ?! About me :- What I want is any real guy or man wants, to know her so well, then talk to her father, then you know the rest You maybe notice from what I've wrote that I'm loner, somehow yes, so I can't deal easily with this issues Last thing :- Any information you need from me, don't hesitate to ask about it, I afraid nothing and all what I will say will be 100% the truth without shying this time as I really had a crush on her Thanks Hesham Edited March 17, 2012 by Hesham_3del
Bob_Funk Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Just as approach as many girls as you possibly can, without investing too much energy into any one girl. Sure you'll get a ton of rejections, but you'll make a few nice memories in the process. Don't waste your precious youth. It'll be over in the blink of an eye. I leave you with this quote by Sir Henry Wotton from Dorian Gray: "Yes, very sensible... people die of common sense, Dorian, one lost moment at a time. Life is a moment. There is no hereafter. So make it burn always with the hardest flame."
Author Hesham_3del Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 You mean that I move on ?! Can you clarify more please
Bob_Funk Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 You mean that I move on ?! Can you clarify more please I mean you're overthinking things. What difference does it make whether or not she's attracted to you? Just make a move and see what happens. You should be approaching other girls as well.
Author Hesham_3del Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 You got me right, I'm raising that hat for you really I'm really shy and afraid of rejections, I'm stating the story so that people can help me and tell me what they think about this girl. I wound so fast, and I had a 2 bleedy stories and I'm fed up. I will move on, but what you think, is she really attracted ?! Could you please answer the questions if you don't mind Thanks for your valuable talking with me So much appreciated really
sid3 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Why people can't help me ?! Just a guess, but it could have something to do with the legend to your map, wow, you really included a map! ..Sid shakes his head in disbelief. Help yourself by being a little more brave. Go talk to her, don't be so scared. There's only a 50% chance she'll to eeewww and scream.
Author Hesham_3del Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 Do you mean that she is interested ?!
Author Hesham_3del Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 I'm so serious, please be patient with me Do you mean that she is interested ?!
sid3 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 I'm so serious, please be patient with me Do you mean that she is interested ?! She'll be like putty in your hands Ok, I think I'm done here
ForgetMeNots Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 My guess is -Yes, she likes you and is probably wondering why the heck you havent asked her out sooner. Wait too long and she will lose interest.
Author Hesham_3del Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 Thank you both of you so much really I'm speechless really
sid3 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Thank you both of you so much really I'm speechless really Understandable. I was really speechless:laugh: Better maps next time, maybe some his and her stick figures, oh and some color.
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