blindnowisee Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 All, I'm going to be meeting my ex to have a final 'good bye' if you will. I'm wondering about the following: I know for a fact that she's trying to keep me nearby (as a Plan B) so that she can fool around with other guys and know that I will always be there to fall back on. As such, I'm hereby promising myself never to be that guy. My question is related to this: I'm planning on moving out of the state and settling somewhere far away. Would you guys tell your ex this in the meeting or keep it close to heart and just leave? Let me know your thoughts as the meeting is creeping up on me. Cheers.
Lil1 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Just leave and go NC. If she reaches out to you sometime down the line then tell her you have moved and started a new, better life (chances are very high that this will be true also!) If you really want to move on, your emotional freedom and sanity will come from NC. I hope your meeting goes well and you get the closure you need. 1
mike588 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 All, I'm going to be meeting my ex to have a final 'good bye' if you will. I'm wondering about the following: I know for a fact that she's trying to keep me nearby (as a Plan B) so that she can fool around with other guys and know that I will always be there to fall back on. As such, I'm hereby promising myself never to be that guy. My question is related to this: I'm planning on moving out of the state and settling somewhere far away. Would you guys tell your ex this in the meeting or keep it close to heart and just leave? Let me know your thoughts as the meeting is creeping up on me. Cheers. Your "planning" on moving out of state Are you really going to move? I wouldn't meet with her...it will set you back... if she wants to fool around with other guys why would even consider being with her? If you tell her you "plan" on moving away are you really hoping she will change her mind? 1
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 All, I'm going to be meeting my ex to have a final 'good bye' if you will. I'm wondering about the following: I know for a fact that she's trying to keep me nearby (as a Plan B) so that she can fool around with other guys and know that I will always be there to fall back on. As such, I'm hereby promising myself never to be that guy. My question is related to this: I'm planning on moving out of the state and settling somewhere far away. Would you guys tell your ex this in the meeting or keep it close to heart and just leave? Let me know your thoughts as the meeting is creeping up on me. Cheers. Just leave and be done with it; why do you need a final meeting if you know it's goodbye??
HollyBolly Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 All, I'm going to be meeting my ex to have a final 'good bye' if you will. I'm wondering about the following: I know for a fact that she's trying to keep me nearby (as a Plan B) so that she can fool around with other guys and know that I will always be there to fall back on. As such, I'm hereby promising myself never to be that guy. My question is related to this: I'm planning on moving out of the state and settling somewhere far away. Would you guys tell your ex this in the meeting or keep it close to heart and just leave? Let me know your thoughts as the meeting is creeping up on me. Cheers. Just keep quiet. I am moving away and the last thing I want her to know is I'm going, let alone WHERE I'm going. Move on. Stay away. Keep away.
Author blindnowisee Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 Thanks guys. You are all right. I won't meet her, will just send her personal belongings via the post and move on. I'm not just planning, I'm actually going. I will be gone in the next 3 months.
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