Gypsie Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 (edited) My ex is mutual friends with some of my friends. Only really on Facebook. He does not full on hang out with them as far as I know. Still. With one of these girls. I notice he makes flirty comments on her Facebook status every now and then. This girl knows how much this guy led me on and hurt me. Have noticed she does not respond to his flirty comments but he still continues to do it. Have no idea if they chat online or not. Reckon I should mention something about it or just leave it be? Like. Hey. I notice so and so leave flirty comments on your Facebook status updates every now and then? Would not be able to accept if they ever got together at all but apparently it looks like my friend has a boyfriend now anyway so he would just be looking like an idiot especially after the way he treated one of us. They say that guys always want what they can't have. I was being pretty cool after our break up and was begging him to get back together or anything at all like that. I sent like only two texts after it ended because he seemed pretty keen to keep a friendship going the day he told me he did not want a relationship but when I did send texts I got one liners back. After the second one. I just gave up on it. The guy was obviously full of bull****. Not long after deleted him off my Facebook. I did not re comment or anything on my friends status when I saw his comment. Just hate how I have to see him trying to flirt with her on there. Edited March 16, 2012 by Gypsie
Black Jack Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 My ex is mutual friends with some of my friends. Only really on Facebook. He does not full on hang out with them as far as I know. Still. With one of these girls. I notice he makes flirty comments on her Facebook status every now and then. This girl knows how much this guy led me on and hurt me. Have noticed she does not respond to his flirty comments but he still continues to do it. Have no idea if they chat online or not. Reckon I should mention something about it or just leave it be? Like. Hey. I notice so and so leave flirty comments on your Facebook status updates every now and then? Would not be able to accept if they ever got together at all but apparently it looks like my friend has a boyfriend now anyway so he would just be looking like an idiot especially after the way he treated one of us. They say that guys always want what they can't have. I was being pretty cool after our break up and was begging him to get back together or anything at all like that. I sent like only two texts after it ended because he seemed pretty keen to keep a friendship going the day he told me he did not want a relationship but when I did send texts I got one liners back. After the second one. I just gave up on it. The guy was obviously full of bull****. Not long after deleted him off my Facebook. I did not re comment or anything on my friends status when I saw his comment. Just hate how I have to see him trying to flirt with her on there. Have you talked to your friend? See how she responds to your questions of him flirting with her. I couldn't be friends with someone who screws around with my ex.
Author Gypsie Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 Yeah. Might mention it casually to her. My ex knows I will see those comments. This just shows how little he gives a **** about everything.
Black Jack Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Yeah. Might mention it casually to her. My ex knows I will see those comments. This just shows how little he gives a **** about everything. Don't worry about him. If he wants to continue being a loser, let him. I'd worry about if your "friend" is chatting it up with him. Talk to her and watch her expressions and body movements and move from there.
Jane2011 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 I have an ex who I'm good friends with, who's my friend on FB, who likes some of my friends. I know he'd like to date several of them. He's not flirty, though. I don't have this problem with any exes or past-people-I've-dated because few of them have any of the same friends or even close acquaintances as me. The ones who do, I still don't have an issue because I've dated non-flirty guys. They're guys who like women, of course, but they're not dorky Facebook flirters lol. p.s. you can block your ex so you don't see his flirty comments on mutual friends' statuses.
veggirl Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Hmm. My BF is now friends on FB with some of my friends. If we broke up, I'd assume my friends would delete him. Why doesn't your friend delete him if he is no longer part of her social circle / life via you?
Author Gypsie Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 (edited) Not sure why those girls have kept my ex on there. But they probably still see him as a mate. But they don't really hang out with him! They met him the same night I did. So it would not be such a big loss if they did that. I met him through another friend of ours but she hangs out with him separately to us. I am fine with that. She does not force me to hang out with them two or talk about him at all when we hang out. She has known him since High School so would understand why she would still be friends with him after our split. He does not send her flirty comments on Facebook just makes normal statements. We all met him through that girl. Hence another reason why they probably still keep my ex on Facebook. But seriously if it were me. I would delete him off my page if he were a friends ex. Even in that situation. Edited March 17, 2012 by Gypsie
Nancy B Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 As your friend whats the deal with it. If I was her I probabley would have already mentioned it to you. Perhaps she just thinks of his comments as nothing. Ask her about, it will put your mind at rest.
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