minee Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 After a gutwrenching 7 days of NC, I broke it last night. I'm so disappointed in myself. I called him and he answered. (I broke up with him because he left me at a bar by myself) He said, "i'm surprised you called me i thought you didn't want anything to do with me..." (im thinking you F***ing ass hole how can you be so heartless) but I calmly state that I wanted to meet and talk. He said we should meet in 3 weeks since that's when he'll have time (ASS HOLE AGAIN!!) By this time my whole pride is out the door and I tell him NO. I have time Monday, we can meet then. Then I foolishly ask why he didn't call and he says "because i thought you never wanted to talk to me again..." ( WHAT THE ****??) So now, we are supposed to meet Monday during lunch. I'm angry I made NC. I'm angry that he didn't fight for us. I'm angry I gave him the power again. Sorry to disappoint you all.. It sounds like he didn't love me, if he's really not going to call because I told him not to.. or are guys like that?
blotter Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 Wait, what? You broke up with him and are now mad he isn't groveling to get you back? If someone were to break up with me I would take that as they didn't want me in their life and I would go NC and move on. And then you told him NOT to contact you, and now you are mad he is respecting your wishes. Note to your future self don't break up with people you want to have in your life.
budley12 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 dont get your hopes up. I met up with my ex a few times after the break up and each time was another let down... each time it felt like he shot an arrow into my chest.... My ex told me he wanted to even get back with me but then when we met he just said "i was expecting the spark to come back". I hope the best for you
Author minee Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 Wait, what? You broke up with him and are now mad he isn't groveling to get you back? If someone were to break up with me I would take that as they didn't want me in their life and I would go NC and move on. And then you told him NOT to contact you, and now you are mad he is respecting your wishes. Note to your future self don't break up with people you want to have in your life. YOU dont even know the whole story. YOu are not helping with your smart ass comment. GO AWAY
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