purpleafrogal Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 So... I was some stuff in the supermarket and I noticed the guy behind the till. But not in a you're so hot way- just an oh yes you're nice way. He was very nice when it was my turn and i felt "something" in the air:p- I checked his name badge for a name - made some serious eye contact and smiled and he handed me my change with two hands (one under mine and the other making contact- not the way some people hold the egde of the money like you're diseased) and i got a lovely wink, smile and a see you again soon. I'm in love heehee . I need to go back soon to change some stuff. I'm not prone to behaving like a nutty teenager but i'm sure there was 'something' Should I give him my number (I've never done that before) or just perv...?
sid3 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 What makes you think you can't do both. You can go and perv while exchanging your stuff. Then if you're still feeling the 'love' give him your number. 4
VirileEntity Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 Should I give him my number (I've never done that before) or just perv...? Go for it! I don't see why not. If you don't, you'll never know if that feeling was real or not, and you might just be passing up on something good or even great. 1
Author purpleafrogal Posted March 16, 2012 Author Posted March 16, 2012 I hope he's there on Sunday! 1
razz90 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 Do it! I happened to be checked out by a pretty hot cashier a couple of times, he was always so friendly, and asked me my name and where i'm from, and told me his name and where he's from. But i never had the guts to stay chatting or slip him my number, and by the time i realized I should probably do that, he'd stopped working there. So do it, or you'll always wonder what might have been! Good luck 1
Lil1 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Do it OP! I want to give my number to this hottie I've seen at my local BevMo lol!! I haven't been there for months though. I also don't really have the guts to slip him my number... but there is definitely 'electricity' in the air when we see eachother so I could be missing out on something very good. Tell you what, if you have success on Sunday I will muster the courage to take that first step also! Good luck! 1
RiverRunning Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 I have mixed feelings on women making the first move, and part of that is because a post someone made here ages ago. I wish I could remember where, but it made sense. It was one of those threads where a guy was posting because he was conflicted. His girlfriend had a 'boyish' figure, as he described it, and he didn't prefer her figure. But she asked him out, so he went with it...and almost a year later he was here asking what he should do because he just wasn't that into her. I'd like to say his situation is an unusual one...but I don't think it is. I realize it's 2012 and equal rights, equal opportunities, yar, yar, yar. But after having relationships where I did the upfront pursuing, I can confidently say I will probably never do it again. Why? Because I do feel like most guys, if they are really into you, will eventually do the pursuing and ask you out. But if he really doesn't have any opportunities on the horizon and you're there for the taking, I do think that guys will go for it. I realize not ALL guys do this and some guys who are really into a specific girl just lack the guts, the drive or something else altogether to make a move. But I think that if he's made it to his 20s or 30s, he should have perfected that skill by now. I dated two guys who just were not that into me. Had I waited for them to ask me out, I would have been a lot more confident that they were really into me and not just going for me because I was available and paying them attention. In the end, they really were not that into me and neither guy was particularly physically attracted to me. In the last relationship, we were always lucky to screw even once a month. I'd say hold out a little while longer and see where this goes. If he's being openly flirty with you already (touching your hands), there's a chance this may escalate and he may make the first move. I'm not saying chicks making the first move ALWAYS goes wrong, and maybe I just have really crappy luck or really crappy interest in men. But given my experiences with guys, and the fact that we evolved for men to do the pursuing, I don't think it's the best idea.
MrNate 2.0 Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 Just do it. After all, you might not be the only woman who has his eye on him. 1
FrustratedStandards Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 No. As long as he knows you're interested, he should make the first move. Maybe for you there was "something" but for him it could have just been being friendly like he is with everyone. 1
RedRobin Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 I'd go for it... There are no guarantees if he asked you first he'd stay interested, is there? Same goes if the woman asks first. All you are doing is bridging the distance. He's the one who actually has to pick up the phone and call those numbers, eh? 1
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