SecretsToTell Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 My best friend of 20 years screwed me over about 8 months ago. Its a very long story but she lost her mother to cancer a few months before we had a fall out. She totally changed how she treated me and said some horrible things to me. Things that I will never forget. Its a long story but slowly she just started acting like a witch. Saying rude things, blowing off plans, etc. The last time I saw her was at a sports bar and it was the same night we had plans to go out and she blew me off but I ended up seeing her while I was out at the same place. I confronted her, she was completely wasted ( I didn't know how drunk she was at the time) and she said some mean things, and I told her she had no right saying anything to me about character being how she cheats on her husband regularly. She than slapped me across the face and some people that worked there saw it and asked her to leave the sports bar. That was 8 months ago. Well turns out she is telling people that we mutually know nasty untrue things about me, esp regarding that night. She is spreading lies and making me look bad. I have not repeated what happened to anyone. When people asked why we werent speaking I just say we grew apart. But she is spreading rumors and its pretty embarrassing for me. I'm 30 years old and maybe this wouldn't have bothered me when I was younger, being talked about but I'm too old for this. I tried sending her a note via facebook but she just wrote back something nasty. I live about 45 minutes away and have thought many times about going to her house and trying to talk to her in person but I didn't want to do it when her husband was there and cause a scene. I'm tempted to tell her husband about her infidelity, I really am. I feel bad for the guy. And from what I hear he was told something completely different than what actually happened that night. I know she isn't the person I once called my closest friend and that makes me sad. Since we are not friends anymore I feel that I should tell her husband what shes doing...wrong?
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 dual thread..... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/317746-ex-best-friend-cheats-her-husband
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