xztjohn Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 me and my ex broke up before and had some fights one fight we were at the bus stop and we were fightig and i said "because i dont like you!" and she stormed off and i tried not to look and when she was far enough i looked and she looked back. thats when i knew we would get through this. the final time after we broke up i wante to get back and tried to reconcile and i walked her back and i took her to her fried who is now her boyfriends car and i stood there as she was walking to see if she would look back bu she never look back once. thats when i knew it was over. so when id you guys know that it was really over? was there a definin moment?
stimson554 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 why are you walking her to her new guys car? don't degrade yourself by suffering the friendzone, Drop this chick from your life! 1
gotye Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 trying to come to terms with it now, I can't move on if I am only trying to make it work again
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 me and my ex broke up before and had some fights one fight we were at the bus stop and we were fightig and i said "because i dont like you!" and she stormed off and i tried not to look and when she was far enough i looked and she looked back. thats when i knew we would get through this. the final time after we broke up i wante to get back and tried to reconcile and i walked her back and i took her to her fried who is now her boyfriends car and i stood there as she was walking to see if she would look back bu she never look back once. thats when i knew it was over. so when id you guys know that it was really over? was there a definin moment? The moment I discovered he was on several different dating sites looking for his 'soulmate'--yet he called me his soulmate. When I confronted him about this, he called me a whore and several other lovely names not worth repeating. He dumped me.
Author xztjohn Posted March 16, 2012 Author Posted March 16, 2012 its been 5 or 6 months now since the break up, she left me for some other guy in a cruel way. I am still little bitter about it, a part of me wants to be the better person and completely ignore her and a part of me wants to cuss the **** out of her and tell her how much of a piece of **** i think she is. ALl she left me is with anger and bitternesss......
sweetheart5381 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 For me it was when I knew there was no going back. Too much pain and hurt makes me unable to trust him again with anything, much less my heart. I can't imagine being his friend and talking to him about anything even remotely personal. He didn't want to hear it when we were together, so why would that change now? Bottom line, he is not the man I fell in love with - that man didnt really exist, rather just an image of someone he portrayed.
coltsfan1 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 For me it was when I knew there was no going back. Same here for me. Hurt like HELL to accept it, but once I came to terms with it I started to heal. I sure did love my ex, there was a time I would have cut my arm off to have her back. Now, I couldn't be more happy with where I am in life.
budley12 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 Im having a hard time accepting it. Some days i wake up thinking its done for good. others i think to myself its just a break and one day it will happen because its meant to be. We were each others firsts relationships, first loves, first everything... so im still in the hopeful phase of one day reuniting the first love. It has been 4months since break up and 1month of NC now (i asked to end all contact because "friends" while he is with another guy is too painful to watch.
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 I knew for sure about a week before it ended. We were fighting every day and I was crying most of the time. He became cruel, wasn't prepared to listen to me at all anymore. He still kept telling me he loved me all the time and last week I was unable to say it back. So he kept asking me if I still loved him and I said "I don't know". On the day of the break up, we were both emotionally drained so much that there were no more tears from either side. He never attempted to contact me again. I am so much happier now
GKM Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 For me, it was thinking about what COULD he do to make it up to me? He dumped me out of the blue, cancelled my vacation to Germany (but kept his ticket-and went!!)- as I was returning my suitcase to the store I was like 'wow,this is the cruelest thing anyone in my life so far has done to me' So....IF he came back, WHAT would it be that would make me forgive him?? And I realized.........even if he came back with a grovelling apology and a wedding ring..I wouldnt take him back. I wouldnt forgive him. He has no real excuses for hurting me that badly, or breaking up with me in such a selfish way. It wouldnt be enough, he betrayed the implicit trust I had in him for 5 years. Its gone, and the man I fell in love with is gone (he wouldnt have done this to me) The man who I know now is not someone I would choose to be with...I deserve better. Thats when I moved on
69ways Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 (edited) 13 months after cold and hot. the moment I found out she slept with someone else, ok lets be fair, it took a her a year, she was out the door for me. I still love her but cant accept it , even if I was expecting it she dumped out the blue, cancelled the wedding and dragged me by the nose. Honestly, she turned into a selfish, ego centric, depressive stuck cow....... I dont recognise her. People who tell their ex:You are the man of my life but we have no future together, are not worth my time Edited March 16, 2012 by 69ways
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