redrose123 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 I just wanted some opinions on this. My ex broke up with me in January and the very next day he came crying back and told me that he realized he had been Taking me for granted and promised to treat me better. He said breaking up with me was a huge mistake and even one day without me was Too much for him to handle so I took him back. I told him I was unsure if he had really learned his lesson since we were only Apart for a day but he promised me that that was all it took for him to miss me and realize he had made a mistake. Well Fast forward a month and things were sour again so he basically forced me to end things but he knew I would be wiling to work on things but he called a few days Later to confir the break up and Told me its what he wanted. I asked him why he came back to me a month earlier and he said he was scared. Now almost 4 weeks have gone by and i have not heard from him. Do you think he will eventually feel like he made a mistake again and try to come back? I honestly don't know if I would give him another chance anyway but the rejection is killing me..
heatherfeather Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 I am not sure, rejection is killing me as well ....slowly
minee Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 i ask myself that question everyday.. after all we've been through how can he just leave me.. will he come back? but no one knows. That's why the NC is used. We can't control what the other person does or how the other person feels, the only thing we can control is us. And by doing NC, you're able to control your emotions and build your life back up. I'm sorry it hurts, i'm hurting too so i definitely feel your pain but if you keep asking questions like "why wont he come back" "why isn't he calling" then you're only setting yourself back and preventing yourself from feeling better. please try NC and try your best to forget him. In the meanwhile while you are doing NC, who knows, he may call and beg you back but there's really nothing much we can do except taking it one day at a time trying our best to live our lives.
Philosoraptor Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 Seems like he had his mind made up before and lost his fear. I wouldn't count on it. It sounds like you were both unhappy with the relationship. Why go back to something that makes either person unhappy? You're much better off right now to just work on yourself as if he will never show is face again.
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