health Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 I love my girl like crazy. She is young only 17. I am her first. I have had two others. She is beautiful and stunning and likes sex alot. She keeps telling me she wishes She was my first as well...I think 3 people is a low number, and I was very picky..I don't mesh my soul with just anyone! I really hope we will be together until we die. She tells me I am the only one she ever wants and thats it. This makes me so happy. I am worried if she would ever want to experiment etc. I might have to let her, but I really don't because I see it as so pure. I keep thinking if she ever cheats on me, I would feel soo bad, as another person got to get with her. These christians who only have one partner...man I repsect that soo much! Is it possible? Can it be done? Hopefully, I know people change especially that young....I'm keeping the faith though.
Pyrannaste Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 Personally, I think that the number of sexual partners someone has had will not necessarily influence the possibility they cheat. You meet people who successfully married their only sexual partner and are in an happy relationship and would never dream of cheating, and you meet 17 years old girls who use the 'I need to make my share of experiences" (lame) excuse to cheat.
TempSain Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 You will never know if someone will cheat. That goes for the both of you. I take it that your young (under 25) from the comments that you made on your post. People tend to change when they get older. If your able to keep your mindset and be happy with her for the rest of your life, then great. But most people find out later that you need more variety. Let me use this analogy to make you try to understand from a man's point of view. Women are like cars. No matter how nice your current car is, there is a newer model coming out that is faster, bigger, and better than yours. When you see a new car it makes you want it. Trust me, it happens to all men. So, what is my advice to you? Very simple, your too young to think that your gonna be with one person for the rest of your life. I know that you think it maybe possible but alot can happen to change your mind. Don't marry until your both 25 or older and after you both have had more experiences, otherwise, you will feel trapped and want to get a divorce. You will see that alot of the problems arise from couples that marry too early.
Bigdog740 Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 youll break up in a year and shell go sleep around- happened to me many times. All girls have to go through a party phase.
UCFKevin Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 Well not all girls but many. My buddy has only been with one woman, his wife, and he seems happy as hell, so it's definitely possible.
reservoirdog1 Posted June 11, 2004 Posted June 11, 2004 A person's number of past sexual partners means nothing. The ability to cheat is a lot more complex than that. TBXW was 18 when we met and had had several sexual partners before then. And she cheated many times. Until the separation I'd only ever been with her, and yet I stayed faithful. And, as far as I'm concerned, the fact that my number has gone up since the separation doesn't make me more inclined to cheat than I ever was before. Your girlfriend will experience temptation while she is with you and will, no doubt, be presented with many opportunities to cheat on you. Whether she does or not actually cheat will depend entirely on her own moral compass, her sense of honesty, and her willingness to honour her commitment to you. Unfortunately, we can never no for sure about those things, and sometimes you have to go with your gut.
Author health Posted June 11, 2004 Author Posted June 11, 2004 Originally posted by Bigdog740 youll break up in a year and shell go sleep around- happened to me many times. All girls have to go through a party phase. Yo Bigdog, thats messed up man. I don't believe that "all" girls have to go through a party phase. Even if they do, it dosn't mean they will cheat. I hope you find a chick who is completely commited to you.
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