jamie1987 Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Hi everybody hows it going just registered and was just looking for some support. My girlfreind broke up with me a couple of weeks ago because everytime i had an arguement with her i would say really nasty things i never meant, ive told her im getting help with anger management as i really want it to work as we have a daughter together but she says she does not love me anymore but i believe this is due to the fact that im this way. But the thing is i told her to give me time to get help and she will see the real me and her feelings might come bk for me but she did not want to hear it, i thought she would have tried for our daughters sake but no. So just really struggleing to get over her cant stop txting her even tho she has told me to stop but its so hard not to as i always think there might still be a chance just really hard how do you all deal with it.
smudge21 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself, pick yourself up and deal with your own issues before expecting any change from her. Despite her lack of replies and pushing you away (which is understandable isn't it?) I would imagine she'd be willing to talk if you could show her you are changing, you are getting help with your anger management. No amount of begging is going to get her back as what are you offering her exactly? Think about it. What has changed right now that would make her come back? Put yourself in her shoes and try to see what she sees. You've accepted you need to sort this out and so go ahead and do it. Send her one last email (not text, she may be ignoring them all) saying simply sorry and that you are dealing with your problem. Don't say goodbye or anything like that, just leave it open ended, and then go get some help. You have to earn her trust and respect back and you do that by proving to her that you have changed, no matter how long it takes.
Author jamie1987 Posted March 16, 2012 Author Posted March 16, 2012 hi thanks for the reply ive recently told her that im moving on as i feel a bit stronger that i have been rejected by her the past few weeks and made me think is it really worth the hassle. Ive told her that i would change and be better for her but she did not want to hear it so im wanting to better myself now, so ive recently bought a weight bench and going to try and build up plus try and get driving lessons to show her that i can be a better person without her . how did u guys deal with ur breakups tho
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