dannyclass18 Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 I’ve liked this girl for about a year, but I’m finding it impossible to tell her how I truly feel about her. I think she knows that I like but I’m 100% sure though. Her best mates sister and her friend have enquired that I like her a few times, but I’ve always played it down. Do you think I should just tell them that I do like her, as they are also quite friendly with her? When we’re together or when we’re txting or talking on the net we get on amazingly. We’re always laughing and joking and winding each other. Although, I don’t see her that often, when we do see each other we always have a great time. I see her on holidays, and I’m going on holiday with her in less than three weeks. How should I go about finding out if she likes me in ‘that way’ without coming out and telling her, as every time I attempt to tell her I bottle it. It’s so frustrating; the amount of good chances to tell her I’ve had is quite unbelievable. Please give me any suggestion to help me, is there a way to see if she likes me in ‘that way’ without telling her directly?
tanbark813 Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 When you guys hang out, pay attention to her body language. Good signs are: * She sits facing you * She doesn't keep her arms crossed * She maintains eye contact while you're talking to her and doesn't look around the room * She plays with her hair while looking at you * She touches you lightly on your arm, leg, hand, etc. during conversation If you have at least a few of these--especially the last one--then just lean in for a kiss when it seems right. If she pulls away or gets mad, then obviously she doesn't like you. If you don't get any of these signals though, she's not interested and don't try for any action.
xOxAshleyAnnxOx Posted June 10, 2004 Posted June 10, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=indigo][/color] Well it sounds lik you really like this girl.. the signal thing sounds pretty good but it doesnt always work..I think that you sould just be yourself and act normal dont say anything about you liking her and dont think about it.. If she likes you you will be able to tell and eventually you will kno for sure..Dont worry she is probally sittin there tryin to figure out a way to tell you she likes you and shes proally worried about it just as much as you are..Just act normal have a good time.. if you both like each other things will happen.. what is meant to be always works out. .just go with you gut feelings...GOOD LUCK!
Author dannyclass18 Posted June 10, 2004 Author Posted June 10, 2004 Thankyou, I will pay attention to the signals and the other advice you have both have given me will hopefully be benefical. Cheers
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