goohoo Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Just looking for some perspectives on this topic or some experiences and outcomes.* Is it healthy to share the same circle of friends with someone whom you are in a relationship with? Why or why not?
Jane2011 Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 It's probably ideal if you share some friends but not others. My last serious boyfriend and I had a bunch of the same friends and still have them. Many of them were his friends first, but they really took to me. Even though he and I are broken up now, they are still my friends. In fact, we all get together as if my ex and I never broke up. Only it's all on the friendship tip now.
Almond_Joy Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I'm having this experience now, and I really love it. ....don't know what else to say about it really lol. I agree with Jane though that all of your friends shouldn't be mutual. That, I think, would be unhealthy. I also think it could be unhealthy if you constantly go to those mutual friends with relationship problems. It puts the friends in an awkward position.
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