No idea where I stand...

[Lampard9752]

Hi guys, this is my first post so lots of replies would be helpful.

 

Im 24, and in my first proper relationship (just started making it official) - I'm currently a personal financial planner and she works as a teacher in a primary school.

 

Our initial dates were really fun/interesting and we spent around 3-4 months dating. Now since we've become official she seems to have less time for me, citing her busy work schedule and she tends to catch up with her friends more than me.

 

I've no idea where i stand basically as she still seems keen to see me when she has the time, but that is hardly ever (maybe once every 2 weeks).

 

What is the best thing to do?

 

Thanks very much

 

Jamie

[BETTERFLIRT]

let me tell you Lampard that girls are always like that. Ordinarily they expect all in a relationship unfortunately can not control themselves when being in that level. She normally feels too much conforts with that is why she reacts like this. Now what you can do is to first talk to her that she can understand the way you feel about her behavior trying to make her convinced that she needs to change the way she treats you I mean by this to find more time to be with you during the week long. Maybe she will accept to dedicate a bit more hours to you only. If not you have to make a serious decision because this can affect you both in long term. Perhaps you will need to balance the relation by acting like you were about to give up or just find someone pretending you love more than her. Not cheating but a manner of capturing her mentality. Unfortunately this is in a newsletter i write if wanting you can visite the site and subscribe that you can get access to it which talks entirely about your case. Good luck.

[emily_m]

It worries me that you put this kind of advice in a newsletter!