Author Woggle Posted March 16, 2012 Author Posted March 16, 2012 It may be a way of avoiding being hurt but it is an empty life Woggle and that is not the life for you. I know but it is a knee jerk reaction whenever I hear about a man being cheated on or a man being treated like crap because he treats a woman too well. I figure that it would be easier to be a player sometimes but then I remember what I have is much better. People don't understand here that I am very knee jerk when it comes to gender relations. What I post now might not be what I am feeling an hour later. I try to not be so bitter but I just pissed off about things sometimes.
anne1707 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 Woggle You only have to look around this site and you will see plenty of threads where women have been treated badly by men. It really does go both ways with no gender better or worse than the other. You love your wife and care deeply for her. Show her this by opening up to her. If she is as good as you have said on LS then she will appreciate this and love you for it. Don't hide yourself from her. This is not about being weak, it is about strength and having faith in your wife.
threebyfate Posted March 17, 2012 Posted March 17, 2012 I have tried being a player and while I don't want it for myself I must admit it is a way for a man to avoid being hurt. It avoids all the good things of falling in love but he also avoids getting hurt.This is the least important point in my entire post. The most important point is the sheer hypocrisy of your actions and posts, that you project onto women all the crap that manifests within you. This is about your issues, not women.
Author Woggle Posted March 17, 2012 Author Posted March 17, 2012 This is the least important point in my entire post. The most important point is the sheer hypocrisy of your actions and posts, that you project onto women all the crap that manifests within you. This is about your issues, not women. All the things I have considered which I doubt I will actually are preemptive ideas which I think of because I don't want to get hurt.
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