Whats wrong with her

[izikil]

hi , i had a relationship for about a year and a half, i was loving this girl so much . At the very start of our relationship her buddy died and after 2 days her dad .. I was there to make her be ok.. thats why we came so close..she said she was loving me too for real .. i was willing to do anything for her .. for long time she was crying and screaming and i would make her ok .. anyway , its the first time ive been so much in love and i was feeling someone loved me too as she was saying . often we have some fights and argue but that was because she usually wasnt ok because of what happened to her for long time .. and after that she usally was saing she is sorry to hurt me and react bad and its because she is was not good in her .. anyway , the things got better at about 5-6 months .. lately she said she had deprasyon because she was in her mind her dad and her friend .. she said she wanted for some days to stay home alone for her to be better , and because she didnt want to fight with me because of her mood , and that she love me most that anything in the world and she dont want me to missunderstand this .. i said ok no problem anything for her to be better ,, .. we stayed away for 4 days , the 3 of 4 days she was going with a girl friend of her at town , this seem weird to me .. anyway one day i said to her i am feeling that something is wrong , if she is ok because i didnt liked her act to me , she was cold .. she said she wants to break up with me because she got bored our relationship ..it was 2 days before my birthday .. by the way ,, about 2-3 weeks ago she said that someone told her i was cheating on her with a girl friend of mine ,, i never did .. she didnt belived me , one day i went out clubbing with my friend and that girl was there too , and i told her she would be , the same day she went to a club too , and she called a guy to go there .. he also gave her a ride to home .. when i got to her home , she said she did that , the same night she also learned that when they said her i was cheating her it was a lie .. she said to to me that she said to that guy to have no hopes to for her and she did that just to make me jealus .. and she admited that what she did was wrong , anyway now that she broke up with me , the next day she went to club with him , the next day she went to him again , and she took a picture in his hands holding her .. i talked to her again and i was asking if she dumbed me for thiis guy she was promisisng now .. by the when he took her home i asked her not to talk with him again and she promised on her dead dad she wont and she dont even like him and she would never do that to me .. anyway last night she was with him at her home until morning hours .. please what i have to do .. she said she loved me , she also said she wanted to marry me .. why she does that now , she was like my wife to me .. and i was like her husband to her as she said ..i am feeling very bad now and i cant even sleep for days i am 23 years old she is 18 the a55hole is 27 .. what shall i do ? try and get her back or just forget about her ?

[flitzanu]

hi , i had a relationship for about a year and a half, i was loving this girl so much . At the very start of our relationship her buddy died and after 2 days her dad .. I was there to make her be ok.. thats why we came so close..she said she was loving me too for real .. i was willing to do anything for her .. for long time she was crying and screaming and i would make her ok .. anyway , its the first time ive been so much in love and i was feeling someone loved me too as she was saying . often we have some fights and argue but that was because she usually wasnt ok because of what happened to her for long time .. and after that she usally was saing she is sorry to hurt me and react bad and its because she is was not good in her .. anyway , the things got better at about 5-6 months .. lately she said she had deprasyon because she was in her mind her dad and her friend .. she said she wanted for some days to stay home alone for her to be better , and because she didnt want to fight with me because of her mood , and that she love me most that anything in the world and she dont want me to missunderstand this .. i said ok no problem anything for her to be better ,, .. we stayed away for 4 days , the 3 of 4 days she was going with a girl friend of her at town , this seem weird to me .. anyway one day i said to her i am feeling that something is wrong , if she is ok because i didnt liked her act to me , she was cold .. she said she wants to break up with me because she got bored our relationship ..it was 2 days before my birthday .. by the way ,, about 2-3 weeks ago she said that someone told her i was cheating on her with a girl friend of mine ,, i never did .. she didnt belived me , one day i went out clubbing with my friend and that girl was there too , and i told her she would be , the same day she went to a club too , and she called a guy to go there .. he also gave her a ride to home .. when i got to her home , she said she did that , the same night she also learned that when they said her i was cheating her it was a lie .. she said to to me that she said to that guy to have no hopes to for her and she did that just to make me jealus .. and she admited that what she did was wrong , anyway now that she broke up with me , the next day she went to club with him , the next day she went to him again , and she took a picture in his hands holding her .. i talked to her again and i was asking if she dumbed me for thiis guy she was promisisng now .. by the when he took her home i asked her not to talk with him again and she promised on her dead dad she wont and she dont even like him and she would never do that to me .. anyway last night she was with him at her home until morning hours .. please what i have to do .. she said she loved me , she also said she wanted to marry me .. why she does that now , she was like my wife to me .. and i was like her husband to her as she said ..i am feeling very bad now and i cant even sleep for days i am 23 years old she is 18 the a55hole is 27 .. what shall i do ? try and get her back or just forget about her ?

 

 

what can you do? nothing. she wants to be with another guy. do you want to be second choice?

[Chi townD]

Okay, very hard and difficult to read, but I think I got it. And I say...let her go. I mean, she's eighTEEN. Thus, a TEENAGER. Too young to be in a serious relationship and she's playing childish games with you. I mean, she swore on her dead father that she wasn't going to mess around with this guy. ANd what is the first thing she does? She messes around with the guy. That is a slap in the face to the memory of her father and a slap in the face to you.

 

Go NC on her. No phonecalls, no texts and no e-mails. Do recieve any from her. Block her on facebook. She made her choice and you weren't it. Time to heal from this and move on.