RonChalant Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 It's been 4 months...or will be as of the next 4 days. We've spoken on 3 separate occasions...she broke nc on each of these occasions except for when I texted her saying I didn't want to see he or be friends with her. Ended up sending a slightly drunk text a week and a half ago which was more about my dog that she has than anything else...asked her twice not to respond...she did. Talking about some letter she's apparently been writing me over the last 2 months or so. Haven't missed her since December...until now. I want to talk to her but I don't have the feeling of desperation thqt i had when this all started. I still love and have feeling for her, and...she's still with the guy she left me for. What should I do?
bluewolf17 Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 You let this feeling pass. You occupy your mind doing something else. She left you for another guy, and is still with him. She activley chooses, each day, to not be with you, and to be with him. Do you really want to iniate contact just to end up hurt when she doesn't tell you what you want to hear? It's obvious from your post that you are not entirely over her. Why don't you wait till then.
Author RonChalant Posted March 15, 2012 Author Posted March 15, 2012 No where near over her...but with each new woman I date/talk to, the thought of her gets stronger...I dont feel I will ever be able to fully be me around anyone but her. This letter/journal she's been writing me for the past almost 2 months bothers me
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