Lionblue92 Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Men: What are clear signs you want to reconcile with your ex in the future without actually telling her with words..but actions?
Woggle Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I never reconcile. I never do either but if a man makes a fool of himself trying to win a woman back chances are he wants to reconcile. A man in love does not hide it too well.
Author Lionblue92 Posted March 15, 2012 Author Posted March 15, 2012 Ok...well more specifically say there is an ex gf out there that u still had feelings for, how could she differentiate you making contact just for an ego boost, to simply BE FRIENDS, having some familiarity... to actually still having feelings and the hope of a possible relationship in the future..
Woggle Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 If a man still had feelings for an ex they would jump at the chance to reconcile. Men are very black or white like that. Either he has feelings or he doesn't.
Eddie Edirol Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Ok...well more specifically say there is an ex gf out there that u still had feelings for, how could she differentiate you making contact just for an ego boost, to simply BE FRIENDS, having some familiarity... to actually still having feelings and the hope of a possible relationship in the future.. A man would actually contact her and say he would like to try again, he wouldnt be afraid of rejection, and he wouldnt give hints that he wants to reconcile. Actions dont do anything unless the words have been said first. That way there is no room for error, or mistake of an ego boost. 2
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 How are you going to convey that kind of a message without having to take the plunge and ask her? then you'd follow it up with actions of course, strong action. 1
Emilia Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Men: What are clear signs you want to reconcile with your ex in the future without actually telling her with words..but actions? In my experience by being very clear that he doesn't want to be friends EVER but he wants to meet up for a drink.
Emilia Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Ok...well more specifically say there is an ex gf out there that u still had feelings for, how could she differentiate you making contact just for an ego boost, to simply BE FRIENDS, having some familiarity... to actually still having feelings and the hope of a possible relationship in the future.. You would do yourself a huge favour if you just met up for a drink/chat/coffee without any promises and see how she is. Don't raise the stakes too high early on, that puts way to much pressure on reconciliation. Meet up with her, talk to her, see how she interacts with you, see whether you are on the same page before you make the plunge.
Orianne Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 As someone who did successfully reconcile, I have to say that there were things my then ex did that showed he still had feelings and longed to reconcile. For example, we had a big snowstorm, and my ex called to offer me a ride to work (at 6am) even though I lived miles out of his way and had a car that handled snow better than his. It actually took about two months after that for him to finally say he wanted to get back together because he felt like he didn't deserve me. We've been married for over a year now.
Anela Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I think they just say so. That's what my dad did, and my parents have been back together for twenty-two years now. 1
Author Lionblue92 Posted March 16, 2012 Author Posted March 16, 2012 Well...what are signs your ex still has emotional feelings for you whether or not he is ready to try and reconcile?
Titania22 Posted March 16, 2012 Posted March 16, 2012 You must be some evil troll with 50 names registered from November all the way to today. No marriage is possible with a woman for 10, don't mind 22 years! You must be the troll. My parents have been married over 45yrs.
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