FrustratedStandards Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 In particular, I want to ask all the alpha males and very sought after women.
Sivok Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I don't really consider myself an uber alpha master pickup artist or anything, but in my experience no, it isn't easy finding a woman I'm extremely sexually compatible right off the bat with- it's rare. Of the 20ish women I've been with, I'd say I found myself mind-blowingly compatible with about 3, compatible with 12, and the other 5 were horribly boring. Funny thing is, interms of how attractive they are, 3/5 of the 'horribly boring' ones were the most attractive girls - they just laid there. I tend to be very communicative(this is a super important part of a relationship to me) in the bedroom and this helps us synch up after a bit if the chemistry isn't up to par - and having an emotional connection definitely helps speed this up.
somedude81 Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 In particular, I want to ask all the alpha males and very sought after women. What are you, 17 years old? Justin Bieber already has a GF.
DontWorryBHappy Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Lol, I dunno how sought after I am, but it can be a little tricky. For me personality is just as big a deal as appearance, actually bigger. The guy could be a model but if he doesn't have the kind of personality that does it for me, it's not going to happen.
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I would rather not answer this publicly Or maybe I'd just rather not have to explain, not sure.
mesmerized Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 A woman can have sexual chemistry with a man even if she doesn't like him. We usually have sexual chemistry with a woman because she's hot. But a woman can have sex with a guy for other reasons. He was on that one t.v. show. His shoes are over $500. Or he's the boss of some business. I only have sexual chemistry with attractive men who give good oral. 1
Tybalt Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I'm still trying to sort this one out in my head... Some things are best assessed from the vantage of hindsight and distance... As my perspective grows I'm often stricken with a bout of revisionist history.
JesseJames Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I'm still trying to sort this one out in my head... Some things are best assessed from the vantage of hindsight and distance... As my perspective grows I'm often stricken with a bout of revisionist history. You will bend over and you will like it. Strip.
Alessandro Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I don't really consider myself an uber alpha master pickup artist or anything, but in my experience no, it isn't easy finding a woman I'm extremely sexually compatible right off the bat with- it's rare. Of the 20ish women I've been with, I'd say I found myself mind-blowingly compatible with about 3, compatible with 12, and the other 5 were horribly boring. Funny thing is, interms of how attractive they are, 3/5 of the 'horribly boring' ones were the most attractive girls - they just laid there. I tend to be very communicative(this is a super important part of a relationship to me) in the bedroom and this helps us synch up after a bit if the chemistry isn't up to par - and having an emotional connection definitely helps speed this up. That's pretty interesting to me. I've also heard that the prettiest girls are so used to just using their looks they don't need to prove anything in bed. And it worries me. My girl right now is ****ing gorgeous but she's also a tigress. I'm the happiest bastard on earth. But in the future I keep hearing that.. and that terrifies me. Nothing I hate more than boring girls.. or being boring in bed. Damn. Sounds terrible, but I wonder sometimes on the value of "dating down a notch" so the people feel like they have more to prove. Does that sound messed up and douchey?
curlygirl40 Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I'm finding it pretty difficult these days. I have met a handful of guys who 'on paper' have everything I'm looking for. But I'm just not feeling the 'spark' with them. That feeling where I miss them when I'm not with them or that 'butterflies in the tummy' feeling if we kiss. That's missing. I've been trying to be more open with this and realize that sometimes these things don't happen right away but happen over time. I've been trying to go on more dates to see if it develops over time but so far, nope. Maybe I'm broken. LOL kidding. But I have found it pretty difficult.
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