That_girl Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 She is 23, and I'm 26. We have to work side by side for a year- I'm on contract, she's a permanent staff member. -She belittles me in front of other coworkers, and clients -She makes judgements about my lifestyle (26 and single, while other women in the office my age have husbands and kids) - She judges my personal style, clothing, hair, etc. - She makes me feel incompetent no matter what I do or how well I do it -She keeps comparing herself to me and makes comments like : "i'm better than you", or "no body here likes you" - She says I flirt too much at work, when I'm just being friendly. - She's humiliated me at work a number of times -She gives me the silent treatment whenever I raise a concern. She doesn't do this to anyone else at work. She is a bitch to everyone really, but NOT to this degree. I think it might be because we have the same position essentially. Only I'm not her competition- I will have to leave in a year! I don't see why she has to be this way with me. The only thing I can think of is that she is overweight with quite a bit of facial hair. She has never had a boyfriend, and has very little friends- still lives at home. Whereas I'm attractive (or so I've been told- many times in her presence which probably makes her hate me even more), and independent. But this is such a ridiculous reason!! "You're prettier than me, so I'm going to make your life a living hell??" I don't get it!!!!!! I constantly meet people that are better than me in so many ways, but I don;t hate them and I would never act this way toward them. I just don't understand but the way things are going- I might be gone sooner than in a year. I've told my boss and she was like "Well look at her...why do you think she acts this way?" At this point I don't wanna get my boss involved anymore, I just want to work elsewhere.
JesseJames Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Job-working sucks. You never got the memo? You put yourself right there in her hairy midst and she means to punish you for being ever so stupid. And now for a call of the Northern Harrier: chiiiit-it-it-it-it-ET-it.................chit-it-it-it-it-ET-it
Author That_girl Posted March 15, 2012 Author Posted March 15, 2012 I take it you're fat and hairy and hate the world as a result too? I guess it takes one to know one.
JesseJames Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I take it you're fat and hairy and hate the world as a result too? I guess it takes one to know one. No. I'm an athletic, hairless, soon-to-be entrepreneur genius that knows these things.
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