Laveli Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Gf and I got into another argument on Sunday, and I packed my stuff and told her I'm breaking up. Sunday night she drove to my house a complete mess from crying her heart out. I told her lets see if we can try to fix it, but she said she screws up too many times, and that I'm too good for her. She asked not to go cold turkey on her and remain friends. I told her I'll be there for her as she said she needed help, but she refused and needed to find help by herself. Her last text message on Monday morning was this... "You are not bothering me. You are an incredible man and I love you very much and appreciate you for being here for me. As I have said before you will always have a piece of my heart and I thank you for everything you have done for me. You are so caring, gentle, loving, kind and have so much to give. Please if you want stay in contact with me and please don’t cut ties with me. I am so sorry for the grief that I gave you with my anger and am and will take control of it. I know that it will take time. I just want you to know that this is not taking lightly by me" As I texted her before that saying I will not bother her and let her find help for herself. On March 30th is our one year anniversary. What do you guys think? Should I send flowers? I love her from the bottom of my heart
chris09s Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 In my opinion, this sounds like a pretty salvageable relationship. I think you guys need to take a little time and just have a little bit of space. You don't seem like you are the type of have a rebound, nor does she. Maybe just tell her that you feel you two take a little time to yourselves (for a certain amount of time - 10 days?) and then talk. That should give you both a little time to clear your heads and think things through logically. I would be careful that you don't become her lifeline during the breakup. If you're constantly there, she may not realize just how important you are to her.
Author Laveli Posted March 15, 2012 Author Posted March 15, 2012 Thanks for the response, Chris, so we both have not communicated with each other since Monday morning. How long should we go NC? Should i wait until March 30th and send flowers?
freetolove Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I don't think you should send her flowers. you guys technically broke up. Why did you guys break up? It'll give her hope again and just jerk her around.
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