heatherfeather Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I don't think my 2nd chance letter that I heard from TW Jackson worked. Maybe I should give it a couple days low down on what has been happening. After like 2 weeks of no contact with my ex, he send me a picture of what he has been working on and that it is almost finished. He said he has been doing great and that he has been busying working on the project. He asked how I h ave been? It took me more then 24 hours to respond (I know i broke down) I said..."Proud of you! Good job!"...that is it. I haven't heard from him since and that was a day ago. Well he must have received my letter yesterday and now has put me as restricted on his facebook. Kinda dissappointed right now.
Author heatherfeather Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 There was no begging or pleading for anything. It basicly said, Hey, Just want you know know that I agree about this break up. I respect and admire your decision that you weren't ready for a commitment. Also, I am sorry if I said anything hurtfull or did anything hurtful to you. For this I am sorry. There has been alot of awesome things happening in my life and I wish I could share them with you but right now we need our space. Maybe in in the future we can be friends Take Care, Heather
zanzi Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Maybe he has heard about the letter thing already as a strategy to get an ex back and knows what you were doing. You might have to just do no contact, the breakup is very recent and your heart is still in a lot of pain isn't it? When your overly emotional you might just do more damage.Dont tell him you miss him, it will give him all the power and you none, knowing your at his disposal. You dont want to be at someones disposal right? that isnt respectful to you. But you still have hope thats why you are trying to get him back. If you stop contacting him for say, a month, you will still be in pain maybe but the emotions wont be so crazy. Thus talking to you will be easier for the ex. More importantly YOU will feel better in yourself. Rejection doesnt just sting, sometimes it burns. he will need the space and though you dont know it, so do you. You know what no contact involves, Im guessing.
Author heatherfeather Posted March 15, 2012 Author Posted March 15, 2012 Yeah I don't know about him reading that letter before. He could have, I hope not. Maybe he is still working on his project and it is giving him time to think.
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