Mixin6 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 So many, many years ago, this girl and I who work together dated for a short time. She knew I liked her more than I did but in the end she went back to an abusive ex and wound up having 3 kids with him. I was upset at the time and she even went as far as to throw it in my face. Whatever. Moved on. Flash forward to 10 years later. We still work at the same place and she is no longer with the baby's dad but I think she's seeing someone else at work. I consider her a friend now. The "new" guy is pretty cool too. She recently had a party at her house and I showed up late. Not long after I walked through the door, another girl came up to me and said, "Let's go for a smoke." I told her I don't smoke and she said, "I know, I don't care. Let's go." So we walked out the back door on to the patio. So we went outside and just chatted but she was pretty drunk and started holding my hand. My "ex", the hostess of the party came out TWICE to throw away 2 beer cans and said, "I'm recycling." The next time she came out with a pizza box. For the record, the new girl and I didn't do anything. We just talked. So here's my question: If she dumped me years ago and kinda seeing a new, nice guy now, why bother checking to see if I'm outside doing something with a new girl? When she sneaks around with the new guy at work, I don't stand around being nosy or even ask her about it. I wanted to jokingly ask her about that night at her party but I know she will just deny it and say I'm making stuff up. I know I'm not.
Chi townD Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Ummm....dude? Sometimes taking out the garbage is exactly that...just taking out the garbage. Regardless if I was having a party, I would pick up a little as the night progressed..less for me to do in the morning.
Author Mixin6 Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 Yes of course.... It's funny though the whole time I was there that was the only time she went out there all night. Also, she KNEW we went out there. Why not give us some privacy like a good hostess or anybody else should?
Professor X Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 You're over thinking it. Besides, what does it matter? Sounds like you're still infatuated by her, even though you're trying to act all "cool" - the fact that you care why she was supposedly checking on you shows you care. Move on dude, she have 3 kids and a new guy now.
Chi townD Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 LOL!! Dude, I don't think this was a black tie affair where etiquette is in order. She was just cleaning up and....don't take this the wrong way..but, it was just you. Don't think it would have mattered if the president was out there, The more important question is. Did you get the girls number? Was she cute?
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