BETTERFLIRT Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 Im 21 but im more attracted to women that are 30 years and older. a women thats 35 is at a perfect age. IDK what it is but im not the only guy that feels that way so please don't judge and call me a pervert. Im just an individual that has preferences. My question is simple. Should i wait for older(30-50) women to approach me or should i take the initiative to start conversations? I dont want these women to think i am some horny perv or something. People have been telling me that i shouldnt approach since a women after a certain age will let you know whats up through very direct signals. Hi everyone. I am so greeny in that forum. This is my first post, profit then to greet you all. I took the time to read almost every reply to that post and it seems like they are all combined to help him that sounds interesting in that group. My advice to you is first: know the one you really want to date. What do i mean by this? Education matters in everything you do in life. If you do not know that person boarder line you risk to offend her. But how can you do this? 2,Generally it is not what you do but the way that determines the result be good or bad. She may really want but the manner you gonna approach her will give you the answer. The third point is to prevent acting directly that if she does not agree you just instantly give up. Maybe you would like to know how. Give her a nice smile, make something that sensually will capture her attention like bring some candies if she is someone with whom you are relationing. Be confident in the way you transmit your message making sure she understand you want to be her boss. Any help let me know.
Titania22 Posted March 15, 2012 Posted March 15, 2012 I don't know what philosophy groups are like in your area, but my philosophy group is mostly people in your desired age range. With very few young guys, you will stand out immediately to any woman who likes younger guys. I should know, I am primarily attracted to younger guys. A new 18yr old join 2 months ago, and he is fine. So far we have had 2 philosophy meetups and we sat next to each other both times. He hasn't made any attempt to contact me during that time, so I don't necessarily think he is interested. The point is meetup.com groups tend to have lots of people in your age range, and so long as you aren't to shy to post something on their walls, like "hi, it was nice meeting you" afterwards, if they are interested, they will probably continue the dialogue. At that age it's not about one person doing all the attraction work, but a back and forth. They want to know you are interested, you want to know they are interested, both sides need to show their interest. I would never personally join a cougar dating service though. It seems to sleazy to me.
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