p212012 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I told this girl, I like her after a few dates and she told me shes too busy/tired to go out. Then again she told me. That she wishes, she didn't have to work so much. Am I a fool? or is she being real with me?
SJC2008 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Not enough info to help you out. A good rule of thumb to go by is that women don't flake on men they are interested in, learned that one the hard way. If they cancel on you and don't offer an alternative they probably don't give an eff. Yes there are exceptions as with everything but for the most part it's true.
USMCHokie Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 ...or is she being real with me? It honestly doesn't matter. If she's blowing you off with the "busy" line, then she's not interested and you should move on. If she's legitimately too busy, then she's not dateable (i.e., probably doesn't meet your time requirement) and you should move on. This is easy.
Author p212012 Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 Well... maybe so. But she's never blown me off, she's just stated the only issue is when. So during this call, I offered that we talk in a few weeks (after the dust clears) and go out for dinner or something. She agreed and didn't say "oh I'll be too tired", then again maybe she was trying to brush me off.
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