Gettingthere1 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 My girlfriend and I are having problems. She once dated a guy off and on for 3 years strait, he is the type that is very clingy and obsessive and doesn't let go of the past. He got under my skin one time taking it too far and going over the boundaries by sending a 20 page text saying why he loved her and everything else, she had enough. I of chores was done with this little prick. We finally get rid of him thinking it was for good. My girlfriend being a very careing and loving person woke up to a bad dream about this kid I have been talking about, she hasn't spoken to him in over 2 or 3 months. Things were going good untill last week when they started talking again, she was worried for him cause of his dream and checked up on him. I found out and got really pissed. I absolutely hate his gutts. When this happened, she said that he said to her that what I told him when I talked to him that ended his speaking to her that he finally had an eye opener that he was hurting her not letting go of the past, this kid ruined 2 of her relationships already because he gets between her and the partner. But anyways back to my story, how in the world do I get ride of this creep again? She won't let me speak to him and she is already getting annoyed but he will not stop trying to talk to her using guilt. If anyone has any suggestions on what I can say to my girlfriend to make her get ride of this creep, could you please put some infeed? I'll be waiting lol
ja123 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 How long have you been with your girlfriend? How serious are you (have mutual life goals, etc)? Are you living together?
Author Gettingthere1 Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 Not living together yet, plan to move intogether in 2 years. And very serious. It's only been 6 months but it's plenty to set life goals together. This kid had some goals with her and lusted over her every time she was single and being in a relationship and still does but during that time she didn't speak to him which was about 3 months, he turned his act around in school and did better and everything else. When my girlfriend texted him, he began to instantly fall back into his loop. She is to soft to kick him out of her life forever cause they were close and all but it was affecting me and her too so she tried. I did the same with my best friend, use to be anyways. But I just feel like I have been deceted and lied to and set up cause of this act she did. I want to remove him from the equasion is my goal, I lust don't know how
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