minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Hey guys! I've just recently had to restart my NC 30 days AGAIN after failing and definitely need support. NC is so hard and I'm on such an emotional rollercoaster that I really need all the help I can get! I wanted to see if there were others like me where we could get a group of people and really pull through for each other and support each other so we succeed in NC. I think that would really help. My friends and family are sick of hearing me out and Id like help from people who really understand and share my pain. Any of you guys up for the challenge? I'm so sick and tired of being hurt by my ex I refuse to let him get to me no more! Let me know if anyone is interested.. I'd like to skype! Let me know if you're down!!
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 im in the same boat. feel free to message me at [email protected] NC sucks! But I feel like its the only way to heal wounds and move on with life. 3.5 months after break up and im still obsessing. if i mention it once more to friends they are gonna strangle me and ive already pushed some friends away
xKitty Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 You know what Minee? With the girl? She flipped on me again saying i dont care about her feelings when she acted like she doesnt care about anything. She told me she doesnt wanna be with someone like me and told me not to contact her ever again. (though she always say that) I feel like I need to end it and start NC. i started by telling my friend to change my facebook PW, and i shut my phone off. You think it's a good start?
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 how do i send a private message? You can't until you have 50 posts :/
Author minee Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 You know what Minee? With the girl? She flipped on me again saying i dont care about her feelings when she acted like she doesnt care about anything. She told me she doesnt wanna be with someone like me and told me not to contact her ever again. (though she always say that) I feel like I need to end it and start NC. i started by telling my friend to change my facebook PW, and i shut my phone off. You think it's a good start? KITTY!! STOP IT! Why do you keep doing this to yourself. YOU ABSOLUTELY MUST HAVE TO be strong!! YOu deserve way way better. I'm proud of you for taking the initiative.. now be strong and please stay with it. This is a life long choice.. you must be prepared for a fight. It's going to be hard and it will be painful but you need to stick it out and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Author minee Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 so nick, how do i send you my contact info?
Frank13 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 So how long should NC rule go for? Your goal should be forever. Too many people think they are over the ex so break no contact (even months or years later) and once they do, the feelings come flooding back. No contact is to heal, and once you heal why re-open the wound.
xKitty Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 KITTY!! STOP IT! Why do you keep doing this to yourself. YOU ABSOLUTELY MUST HAVE TO be strong!! YOu deserve way way better. I'm proud of you for taking the initiative.. now be strong and please stay with it. This is a life long choice.. you must be prepared for a fight. It's going to be hard and it will be painful but you need to stick it out and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I know! You have that urge too? to just message? and if they MESSAGE YOU you would feel compelled to read it ?!?! i turned my phone off but i NEED it for school and work! WHAT TO DO?
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 so nick, how do i send you my contact info? Email me at: [email protected]
Author minee Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 Your goal should be forever. Too many people think they are over the ex so break no contact (even months or years later) and once they do, the feelings come flooding back. No contact is to heal, and once you heal why re-open the wound. this is definitely true. I vowed to do NC for 30 days and succesfully (but painfully) completed it. I had some stuff I needed to return back to him and felt I was strong enough to give his things back over coffee. WRONG! Emotions came pouring out and now I'm right back where i started. NC day 1... here we go again. This really does suck.
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 i really hope to reconnect with my ex once again. We are both studying abroad next semester so I am hoping that almost a year apart with NC may be good for us. We were each others first loves... I cant just let him go completely. I hope to even just be friends with him, but hopefully more. But as everyone is telling me "if its meant to be, it will be". For now I am going to TRY and move on and meet new people and focus on me. If I find a new Mr Right, then so be it...
BMZMJ Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Hi minee....post your skype ID and I will add you. I jus started NC and I'm on day 2
mymission Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Hey I'm up for this. I was NC for 2 weeks and then he text me. I couldn't handle it, I poured my heart out for a few days and got majorly rejected. So now I'm on day 2 of NC again
Author minee Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 Do you guys have a skype account? We could all get on skype at the same time and just take turns venting and hearing each other out.. I think it would help. Let me know what you guys think.
BMZMJ Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 yeah let's do it. write down your skype and I will add you. Im in 2nd day of no contact.
Author minee Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 SKYPE ID: Cindyx712 if anyone else wants to vent and hear each other out, lets do it.
bluewolf17 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I just passed Two Weeks NC, thought he texted last thursday..but I ignored is so wasn't sure if that restarts NC. I would love to be part of this group. All day long I just want to send him a text or message telling him what an ******* he is and how much I miss him.
Author minee Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 write down your skype ID i'll add all you guys in. If you dont have one download it! DAY 6 NC.. UGH it's soooo hard and its so painful.. i feel like i'm making progress one day and today, im down in the sh*****! pleeeeeeeeeeeeez put me out of my misery.. !!
Author minee Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 great! I wont be able to get on skype until later.. when does everyone want to meet on skype?
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