Laveli Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 My GF and i broke up 2 days ago, we both cried and she stated she needed help to become better. She decline any of my help, as she wanted her space. But, asked to be frieneds and i refused. We have not contacted each other the last 2 days, now my question is i still have few items over at her place. How do i ask to get my items back?
xKitty Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 If its not important items, wait a month or 2. Then when you are both feeling emotionally alright to see each other, then meet up or pick it up.. If not, get a friend to get it for you.
Author Laveli Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 If its not important items, wait a month or 2. Then when you are both feeling emotionally alright to see each other, then meet up or pick it up.. If not, get a friend to get it for you. I have some clothes and a bike. Do you think i should contact her and tell her a friend will pick it up? I'm still hoping we can get back with each other, im not sure how that will work now.
minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 this is what i did. and dont follow my advice because now im struggling after reconnecting with my ex. I had the items that belonged to my ex for awhile to have an excuse to see him again. I didn't want to see him so soon and "waste" that opportunity, I wanted to save it when desperation really kicked in. So I waited 30 days after no contact and saw him to return his items. Well guess what. I'm back at square 1 and missing my bf like crazy again!! Its worse than it was 30 days ago. I say, return the items while you guys are still talking.. and if you want to work it out, communicate that to your partner. At least then, you'll know if you guys can work on it or move on. But do it early, or get set back like me and end up in a S***hole.. AGAIN.
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