mymission Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Turning all the lights off and going to sleep on your own. Closely followed by waking up alone lol!
BMZMJ Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 well I didnt live with my ex of 5 years but we had frequent sleepovers... I havent had trouble sleeping thus far, but I recommend you fall asleep to some relaxing music or melodies...I've been listening to this type of music at work and it helps to really feel calm and relaxed
minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 the worst part for me is the cuddling. Or taking showers together and unwinding down our day. Or waking up in the morning with him smiling next to me. Or him caressing my face telling me how beautiful i am. Or me pinching his butt in public. Him stroking my hair while I watch tv and fall asleep. AHH!!! I'm GOING CRAZY!
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I feel your pain everyone I miss waking up next to my ex everyday. I slept beside her every night for almost three years . I miss her so very much and I miss all the little things the most! I'm so depressed and heart broken. I hate my life without her.
minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 i agree Nick. LIFE SUCKS! IM MISERABLE THIS FEELS LIKE SH**!
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 i agree Nick. LIFE SUCKS! IM MISERABLE THIS FEELS LIKE SH**! And it sucks because the only people I have to talk to is friends and some family and all they say is "move on, get over it". I wish I had someone to talk to who actually is going through the same thing! I mean I can post her but that's about all. I'm just so lonely .
minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 my friends say the exact same thing!! UGH! WTF. I'm hating life right now. its miserable. I feel like i have to drag myself to go to work everyday.
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 my friends say the exact same thing!! UGH! WTF. I'm hating life right now. its miserable. I feel like i have to drag myself to go to work everyday. Well let's be strong together and stay NC! I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to, cause trust me I know what your going through!
Octavius Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Gets better with time, the first month I had a ton of trouble sleeping in the bed we slept in together all the time and some times I would sleep on the couch or at my parents.
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I say we all just meet up. get a california king and have a cuddle session. Im in desperate need of one =(=(
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I say we all just meet up. get a california king and have a cuddle session. Im in desperate need of one =(=( I have a cal king! Meet at my house in Utah lol
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I have a cal king! Meet at my house in Utah lol LOVE utah! my favorite state. wish I could be there
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 LOVE utah! my favorite state. wish I could be there Really? Most people dislike Utah but they have the wrong idea about it. I like Utah . Fly down! Haha
minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I could really use support.. Lets be each others nc buddy nick!!
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I could really use support.. Lets be each others nc buddy nick!! That sounds good to me!
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Minee, do you want my email or # so if you want to talk instead of contacting our ex's?
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 i wanna get in on this! I need a NC bud as well. My friends are about to strangle me if I talk about my ex anymore...
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 i wanna get in on this! I need a NC bud as well. My friends are about to strangle me if I talk about my ex anymore... You can text me or email me if you'd like? Which do you want?
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 You can text me or email me if you'd like? Which do you want? email would be great!
nick d Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 email would be great! Ok. I sent you an email, so now you have my email address.
Hopeful83 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 isnt it crazy how its the little things we miss the most? missing sex is obvious.... but its the touch is his hand... the way he would come up an randomly kiss me.. the way he always made sure i was ok... sleeping beside him was the best. i have never felt so safe. i used to hold my guys fingers in stead of his whole hand... what i would give to hold his fingers just once more.... sigh..
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 isnt it crazy how its the little things we miss the most? missing sex is obvious.... but its the touch is his hand... the way he would come up an randomly kiss me.. the way he always made sure i was ok... sleeping beside him was the best. i have never felt so safe. i used to hold my guys fingers in stead of his whole hand... what i would give to hold his fingers just once more.... sigh.. or just the cute way they say your name, or how they look at you right when you wake up in the morning... i think these things are more painful to lose than the sex.
Author mymission Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 I need to stick with no contact as well. I managed it for 2 weeks but then he text me and I was all over the place then. Texting him all the time. I'm officially on Day 2 again lol. And I'd have to come all the way from England haha. I have noticed this forum is mostly American. But heart break is the same in any country
Author mymission Posted March 14, 2012 Author Posted March 14, 2012 Its definitely the little things. And the memories are so strong
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