Bishop90 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 OKay you been thru a painful breakful if you elect to follow the NC rule i cannot stress how much you should stick with it. I was with this girl a little over 2 years. she was a control freak and i broke up with her. I wasnt perfect either i made a lot of mistakes. Fact of the matter is i broke up right after i had begged her for a sec chance and this pissed her off. i initiated the NC rule and it was the hardest thing ever. I had weak moments every 2 minutes literally. Finally i gave in broke the rule and called her she didnt answer then i went to her house. it alllll went down hill from there. She sense the weakness and ripped me apart for breaking up with her. i went borderline insane even started tearing a little bit. point is if u initiate the NC rule dont break it. trust me your weak moments are a joke compared to the pain youll feel after you show weakness and break the rule.. believe me this is experience speaking. 1
Frank13 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Excellent advice. There are many stories here where people broke NC and paid the price as you described.
budley12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I agree. my ex broke it off with me before xmas break a few months back. A month into the breakup he started texting me again and then started calling me every night. We talked for hours and he said he wanted to get back. As soon as we got back to school and saw me he said "it wasnt what he expected". He slowly drifted further and further away and started seeing somebody else. He claims he still wants to be friends but its too painful. It felt like I was dumped again but this time was even worse. Now its back to strict NC (its been 3weeks and i asked him to not contact me for any reason). I miss him so much, and am secretly hoping he will contact me again but I dont think he will this time.
minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 id rather deal with the hurt now and get the chance of mending my broken heart than calling my ex for a short temporary fix of relief and looking pathetic and desperate in his eyes. Calling or initiating any sort of contact with him and getting no replies back stings like a b****... because i know not only is my ego bruised and my pride hurt but now i know my ex sees me as a pathetic loser who can't control my emotions.
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