Maria7 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I broke up with my bf of almost 3 years, 2 days ago, I haven't contacted him since, and neither has he. Whenever we used to argue no matter if it was his fault it was always me running after him, I suppose I got sick of it and done the same to him after a big argument which was his fault to start off with and he hasn't bother contacting me.. I cant help but think about him, I do love him but he hasn't bothered and wont bother this time. hes very controlling, tells me what to wear, and places I cant go, constantly ringing, I got sick of it all, and in a way i am happy i can talk my guy mates, wear what i want without thinking im going against him, and go out to places when i want... but still hes in my mind.. I want to get over him completely..
Philosoraptor Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 You need to spend some time alone for now and work through emotions. It's not easy to be in a controlling relationship where you are always made to feel like you are the bad guy, but you know you're not. You are now free to live your life the way you want to. So take it and enjoy your new freedom.
Author Maria7 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 do u think its normal for a man to be controlling like that? why do I want him? i cant see myself with anyone else apart from him, whyyy?
gibson Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 do u think its normal for a man to be controlling like that? NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Relationships, dating and marriages are not a prison sentence. He is psychotic and before long he will probably end up beating you.
Philosoraptor Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 do u think its normal for a man to be controlling like that? why do I want him? i cant see myself with anyone else apart from him, whyyy? It certainly isn't normal and you shouldn't accept it. You can't see yourself with anyone else because it's too fresh. Give it time and always continue working on yourself.
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