skyisfalling Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 (edited) So I've decided to join the forum and write my own story in hopes of getting some advice. I've been reading the forums and a lot of people on here already seemed to know that their relationship was rocky before the break up. But mine was different. My bf and i were extremely lovey dovey and everything was great.. up until the fight. It was a big deal to me. What had happened was I carpooled with my bf an hour away and we decided to visit the city. Well, we both decided to go drinking and ended up getting drunk. We fought, and guess what. The BF decides to leave me STRANDED in the city by myself with no car!!! I had no way to get back, good thing I had my cell phone!! Plus I was drunk! So I HAD to break up with him and he didn't even put up a fight. And Now, I called him 4 days after I broke up with him to talk about what happened and no answer. I just hung up and left no message. It has been 3 days since I called him and he still hasn't responded. WHY is he not contacting me? Will he eventually call me back?? What do you guys think? Should I initiate NO CONTACT even though I was the one who broke up with him? I'm kind of confused. Edited March 13, 2012 by skyisfalling
CarrieT Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 Obviously everything wasn't alright for him to leave you stranded. On top of it, why would you want to get back with someone who would do something like that to you? Why are you continuing to contact him when he clearly has no interest in responding to your calls? Go No Contact and stay that way. And -- if I may be so bold -- lay off the booze... It obviously isn't good for you and leads to precarious situations.
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 Sounds like a real losery kind of guy; gets drunk and leaves you stranded? And he doesn't call you later/he does not care if anything happened to you. Lose that creep.
Author skyisfalling Posted March 13, 2012 Author Posted March 13, 2012 Why cant I see him for the douchebag that he is? Why do I keep thinking about all the great times we had the great fun we did. If only if we hadn't gone to the city maybe this wouldn't have happened. I can't take the feeling of emptiness away. All I keep th oi nking is what if and I check my phone a million times a day!! What do I do im going crazy! Plz help
Eddie Edirol Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 To be honest, he already was frustrated with you for something that already happened before the fight. Plus, if my gf said we were broken up, and then changed her mind three days later, I'd think she was too immature to be in a relationship with. If he was so frustrated with you that he wouldnt care how you got home, then you really must have been a pain in the ass for a long time and he couldnt take anymore.
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 To be honest, he already was frustrated with you for something that already happened before the fight. Plus, if my gf said we were broken up, and then changed her mind three days later, I'd think she was too immature to be in a relationship with. If he was so frustrated with you that he wouldnt care how you got home, then you really must have been a pain in the ass for a long time and he couldnt take anymore. Frustrated with HER? He sounds like a tool. They BOTH fought. What he did negates any good time. If he cared, he would call to apologize at least. He's so not a man.
minee Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I was in a similar situation except my boyfriend (ex) left me at a bar. It was good of you to dump him. I dont care how great the relationship was, if a guy can leave his girlfriend alone stranded, that's not a great guy to begin with. Everything else was just an illusion. You deserve better.
Nancy B Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 It is bad enough that he stranded you. But the fact he has not apologized, let alone check up on your safety is deplorable. You deserve better than this. I'm sorry this is how it ended for you. Good luck.
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