LB85 Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 There is this guy I have been making eye contact with for very long. The first time he smiled at me, he looked away and smiled so I gathered he was shy. My friends told me he's always looking at me when I don't notice. So I tried saying hi, he said hi back and the next time he said hi himself, but we stopped doing that after those 2 times. Yesterday I asked him for a light to get things rolling (after almost 2 months). He was very kind and even teased a little and wished me luck in the library. I was suprised at his enthusiasm. Today he sat in a different place than where he usually sits (it was busy in the library but ppl constantly leave), making me think he's avoiding me. When we bumped into each other, we both briefly said hi. But he keeps confusing me and I get sad because men are always vague with me. Also he didn't seem shy when he talked to me. He doesn't really make an effort to talk to me otherwise but he also can't stop looking at me from a distance when I am around. This has me stuck and I was the first one to say hi or to even try communicating so i did show interest. he just keeps smiling whenever he sees me and sometimes he pretends he doesn't see me. I don't understand, he is really handsome and has a confident walk so I don't know if he really is so shy (I just assumed its because he pays so much attention to me when I don't notice). He has followed me down to smoke sometimes, but then when he's there...its like I don't even exist. Sometimes he even avoids crossing paths with me and other times he keeps focussing on me. Help please, I'm so depressed..why am I not worth pursuing?
ConfusedOne4 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I don't think its you. I think guys sometimes just don't know how to act with girls and they refuse to be honest about their feelings. If you think he knows your interested, then let things go from there. Sometimes, I feel like it takes them longer to realize it and if they're interested they will come to you. Then there are the cases where they just like the attention and they know how to get the other person to keep giving the attention. My issue is, I'm not sure how to tell the difference between that yet. I guess you can try waiting a bit longer and if he doesn't act on anything, then he isn't worth your time. You should try to find someone else worth your time and someone who is willing to come up to you and ask you out and admit they think you're amazing. Otherwise, that person isn't worth it.
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