Mr. Savage Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 I am 29. I have a good job which I've had for about 8 years and I am financially stable, pay all my bills, and live a pretty normal life for the most part. However when Friday nights come I become somewhat of a party guy. I usually drink heavily and partake in drugs (mostly smoking a little weed). I like getting messed up after a long week of work and I am not ashamed of myself in any way for doing it. Keep in mind I do nothing of this sort during the week. I dont touch a drop of alcohol or smoke any weed. I smoke a few cigarettes here and there thats it. My ideal mate would be someone like myself who has their life toghether but likes to let wild sometimes. But I'm not gonna spend my life single searching for that certain someone. I want to be out dating now, testing the waters. So lets see my options here based on a general consensus: Women my age: Most probably coming out of the partying stage in their life and not comfortable being around a guy like me on Friday nights. Women younger than me: College aged girls partying way more than me and probably drinking 2 or 3+ times a week. ( Too much partying) Women Older than me: Not really interested. If you were me would you just take your chances and date whoever and let them find out how you are? Or is the right choice to stop living how I want to make things easier?
stillafool Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 Just keep dating until you find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Why are you worrying?
ditzchic Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 Different strokes for different folks. Just keep dating and don't think too much about it. The whole pointi n dating is getting to know each other and see if you are compatible. You don't have to go into it with intentions of nailing it down right away. Get to know someone and let them get to know you and take it from there. If there's mutual interest, there is. If there isn't, there isn't. There right person for you is going to love you for who you are so don't try and hide it or the whole thing will be baseless anyway.
FitChick Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 If you are partying heavily on the weekend, it's probably because you don't have a girlfriend so have nothing better to do. It actually makes you sound a bit boring. But then I am an older woman who finds partying boring. By the way, did you change your photos in your profile and have you gotten better responses as a result?
Author Mr. Savage Posted March 13, 2012 Author Posted March 13, 2012 No, I'm not really doing the online thing anymore. I'm focusing more on real life interactions.
veggirl Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 Meh, I think once a week drinking/going out is fine. I'm 28. I do think that when you are in a relationship, you will find that you don't do that even just 1x per week, though. It's not like when you meet someone you have to be all "btw I get wasted once a week, usually on Fridays" or anything. Lots of people I know my age go out once a week, I don't find it weird at all. I used to do about that, now it's probably 2x per month with my BF.
Leigh 87 Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 I am seeking the same things you are - I love to party hard, and work responsibly during the week ( although, I am not working atm, but will be soon, I tried University, did not like my course, and have pursued a differnt career instead). Plenty of people are like me - your NOT sad to like to party, it is social, fun, and great. People whos ay it sounds sad are sad for judging u.. ur the one who enjoys it, therefore your nto sad for oding something u enjoy - u must also enjoy a diverse range of thiings, besides partying lol. The good thing about finding a girl who works AND likes to have fun in the way u do, is that u can go on trips together to party places and have a blast, as your financially stable and will both have the means to travel:):)
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