freetolove Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I feel sort of stupid, I broke NC, I missed him so much =(
LostGirl11 Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Don't be so hard on yourself. Start over and next time you want to contact him remember how you're feeling now.
sweetheart5381 Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I feel sort of stupid, I broke NC, I missed him so much =( Don't feel stupid, it's not stupid to miss someone you love.. it's normal. Don't beat yourself up, I learned the hard way just how painful it is when they either ignore you or treat you in a cold and cruel manner. I have stuck to NC for the last 3 weeks since his last angry and cold response and I will never, EVER initiate any sort of contact with him again. Hang in there, it does get easier once the storm of emotion has passed. Take care.
mike588 Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Oh yeah N.C. is so difficult to do...I almost broke it a hundred times!! I don't know if you want your ex. back or not but heres my advise. If you don't want your ex. back....call him..text him every day....cry...beg...plead with him to get back together. If you do want your ex. back...or the chance of getting back together..Stick with N.C. You may know by now that No Contact is NOT designed to get your ex. back...it's to help you heal and move on but sometimes it makes them miss you....wonder about you....think about you. The choice is yours.
jus d'orange Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 At first, you use NC because you want to be out of their life for their sake -- they've made it clear they don't want you around. It hurts. Eventually, NC becomes about you though. Give yourself whatever reason you need right now to stick to it. It is true that going NC and moving on with your life gives you the best shot at another relationship with them. However, you will probably eventually be glad not to be in contact with someone that doesn't want you anymore. You just need to keep up with the healing process to get there. If you feel desperate to contact them, get in touch with someone else instead. If that's not available, post on the coping forum (there's a thread entitled post here instead of contacting your ex). Writing out what you want to say gives you the catharsis necessary to keep going with your life without creating the pain or rejection of trying to re-enter the emotional bubble of your ex.
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