Shaik Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Hi All, I have recently been broken up with from my gf of 3 years almost 3 weeks ago. She says she couldn't do it anymore and feelings for her have changed. Something has changed. We broke up after a petty argument but I think problems were much deeper than just the squabbles. I left things civil and accepted everything and walked away. I didn't speak or see her for almost a week and she texts me saying she had organised for her friends car to drop off all my stuff on Saturaday (this was on Thursday) I had a lot of stuff at hers. I panicked and called her saying we should meet and talk, she was hesitant at first and said I wasn't going to change her mind. She agreed to meet the next day anyway after crying. We met and I kept things simple and light, I didn't want to push anything she was very upset for most of the meeting. I only just teared up when we said goodbye. I got my stuff back but she couldn't fit my bike in so I'll have to see her again. I gave her a day and she ignored me for another week, which I found strange because we were being very civil. I left and got an email to my work from her today - it completely threw me off. I want to know if theres a chance with us again? Or am I just over-thinking being over hopeful? Here are the emails - sorry for the long post; (her) Hi, how are you? Hope you are ok. How is work going? Just wondering if you had thought about when you would like to pick up the bike? Sorry I didn't get back to you before, I was quite busy over the weekend. I have my bike now and have a pump so can get it ready for you. Cycling is going well, I'm enjoying it and haven't got into any scrapes yet. I'm doing ok. I found out I have an interview for the Surrey course - so fingers crossed. It's not til May though. I got rejected from Bath but still haven't heard from Royal Holloway. Anyway, hope you are alright. Let me know when you want to come and get it. Or if you like I could bring it to your work? -------------------------- (me) Hi, I’m not too bad thanks. Well done about the interview! I’m really pleased for you! Can’t say I’m surprised though J Sorry to hear about Bath, guess Gay Street will have to wait. Work has been crazy busy, but the good kind. They’ve moved me upstairs now and occasionally have to work over at the city office so I don’t have to deal with Emily anymore, outweighs the pay rise if you ask me. That’s ok, I thought maybe you wanted to leave it till after your Birthday. I can’t really do anything before Thursday for this week now unfortunately, sorry. Will this be a problem? Don’t worry about bringing it over to me, I don’t want you to have to go out of your way like that. If I can drop something this week can I let you know? But of course whatever is easiest for you. Just to let you know I’ve also transferred the money I owe to your account last Thursday, sorry it took so long had only received my card reader, forgot to text you so let me know if it went through ok. Glad you’re enjoying cycling and still alive and well. ------------ (her) Hey, Glad to hear work is going ok and that you've got away from Emily a bit! Busy is good I think. No worries about the bike, we can wait until after the weekend but let me know if anything changes. And thanks very much for transferring the money, I will check it when I'm home tonight and have my card reader, I'm sure it's fine though. What do you guys think? Any help or opinions will be much appreciated.
TaraMaiden Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 you're over-thinking it. Read my Caliguy signature. You better believe it buddy.....
CaliBabe Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I think she is just being cordial. Nothing says I want to work things out, lets meet to make it work, etc... It is nothing at all really.
Author Shaik Posted March 12, 2012 Author Posted March 12, 2012 I find it very strange though, how she is willing to go out of her way in being nice. Then ignore me then being nice. I really wish there was some chance. But I know if I love I have to let her go. I know I don't need her..but as time goes on I realise I much I actually miss her. I feel like she feels that too, but I don't know why should wouldn't want to work things out
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