tingleface Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 been with my lady for 18 months, shes had this close contact with another woman for few months now..always texting her despite being with me. She always said its innocent...Anywayssss..its all come out now and theyre both in love with each other..my partners 28 and this other woman is 4y7 and shes married with kids and has said she wont be leaving her husband...my heads a mess...shes ended it and im supposed to just accept that shes in love with this other woman!
69ways Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 been with my lady for 18 months, shes had this close contact with another woman for few months now..always texting her despite being with me. She always said its innocent...Anywayssss..its all come out now and theyre both in love with each other..my partners 28 and this other woman is 4y7 and shes married with kids and has said she wont be leaving her husband...my heads a mess...shes ended it and im supposed to just accept that shes in love with this other woman! No your are head is not a mess, she is... Its a tricky situation. Has she shown signs of bisexuality in the past? It might be a case of confusion/experimenting, for sure if she is in love with another woman and she is leaving you, it clearly shows her will to commit to this older lady. The fact though that the older lady will not leave her husband , will for sure affect their relationship with your ex and in my opinion, it will lead to nowhere. I guess you can just accept it and stay NC in my opinion. Look at it the bright side, at least she is not leaving you for another bloke an din my opinion is much easier to cope with another woman than another guy....
rickys Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 It's really a serious trouble. It seems that she is being crazy. Has she ever did this before?
HighFlight12 Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 (edited) I personally think that you need to support her decision. Its no point of chasing her, because the more you chase the more she will push. Women are mystery creatures, and I sute as hell never been able to figure them out. I'm going to tell you something and this is something for everyone else as well. When you lose the one you love so dearly, its not going to help or make you feel better by stressing or being depressed , 9 times out 10, a woman will act of emotion, women dont know how to act out of reasonable thoughts. With that being said, when things dont workout with her and the lady, she will most likely come back to you expecting you to pick the pieces up. If you are past it, just like you respected her decision, she has no choice but to respect yours. Us as men are so focused on that 1 woman, even if we f up, but we fail to realize, just because you love someone, or see marriage with that person, doesnt mean that it is suppose to happen. You need to find a woman that you don't have to question if shes completely down for you. You need a woman whose there to cheer you in prosperity, and to heal you during disappointment and failure. I'm speaking from experience, wether I succeeded or failed, I can honestly say, I never received the support I seeked. I kno I was kinda off subject, but my point being, you need to seek more than what your ex had to offer you, and im not saying your any better than her, or she is any better than you, but you have to have a switch of on/off of what you will tolerate. She isnt worthy of you, and the same applies if it were the other way around. Id advise you seek other activities and let the wind progress you forward. Edited March 12, 2012 by HighFlight12
Author tingleface Posted March 12, 2012 Author Posted March 12, 2012 im a woman too..me n my partner were in a gay relationship..the woman shes fallen in love with is a 47yr old supposedly straight woman..she doesnt wanna leave her husband and kids..my gf has given up all of thsi with me for someone she cant physically have..
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