Kansas Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 (edited) Well, I've had a crush on this guy for 4 years now. To make a long story short, he was my old boss. Nothing ever happened between us while we worked together, but the chemistry was there. We both moved on from the company and would see each other from time to time. About a year after knowing him, he got drunk and blurted out that he loved me. About 2 years after we initially met we fooled around. Then he had a g-friend, I had a b-friend. We wouldn't see each other for months at a time. Now we are both single. For the past couple of weeks we've hung out on the weekends and texted throughout the week. This past Friday we ended up getting drunk and fooling around again. Only this time I was the idiot and told him that I had a crush on him and basically told him how I have felt about him all this time. The bits and pieces of what I remember him saying are, "I can't promise you anything" and he seems to be on the fence about pursuing anything serious with me. He says ... I could see us together, and I could also see us driving each other crazy. We ended up sleeping together and then of course, the next day we woke up and it was weird. I left pretty quick, but he didn't walk me to the door or anything and just said he would text me later ... which he did, which was courteous. I think I pretty much blew any chance with this guy. I'm too embarrassed to see him again and think we're just gonna go back to the whole lets pretend this never happened, avoid each other for 6 months and then talk again when we bump into each other. On the one hand I feel stupid for telling him how I felt. On the other hand I feel relieved that I told him and found out pretty much instantly that he's on the fence about me and "can't promise me anything", so at least I know where I stand. If you were a guy, would you run the other way? I'm definitely not going to contact him, but if he contacts me what do I do? Ignore him? Apologize for being a blabbering drunk? Edited March 12, 2012 by Kansas
jerbear Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 My suggestion is leave him alone, he already knows he has you and told you how he felt. He knows how to find you.
SadGrl Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 You both were drunk, and it was all drunk talk. he said he loved you when he was drunk, so why should you feel bad for doing same thing....In his case he lied, in your case, you told the truth....why be with a Man who lies to you about love? For me Sex is just that, it don't change a thing...it just like going out and playing a sport together. Should not change anything.
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