LifesBeachy Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 My last boyfriend had a few here and there. no big deal. but he had a few that stuck out under his arm, say beneath the armpit, not actually IN the armpit, but just enough where a t-shirt sleeve would cover. every so often lying down it would inch up and i'd see the cluster of them. drove me mad... What are those things anyway? I even tried to search but couldnt find. Now, I met a new wonderful guy! He has a HUGE mole...on his forehead, right side. and when his bangs are short it is just looking RIGHT at me... I guess the mole on his forehead was better than one on his cheek. (Remember when Enrique Iglesias first came out with the cheek mole? Yow.) This new guy also has a mole on his neck, though not AS bothersome as a the forehead mole... I recall never liking guys with moles before, honestly... I just thought they were sooo weird. Anyone else? I can't be the only one. Any way to get over this? I'd prefer the guy to have scars, actually. or even acne...So I'm not certain what would cause my mole aversion. 1
Star Gazer Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I once broke up with a guy over a couple moles - one right on his cheek near his nose, and a HUGE one on his back. Some here called me a raging shallow b*tch for that, but they creeped me out and I just couldn't get over it no matter how hard I tried.
johan Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Dirty little burrowing vermin with no eyes. I can't stand them. But I have to admit that if the night is right and they are put in just the right place and allowed to do their thing, they can actually be quite a turn on. I'm sure people who know what I mean will "Like" this post. 1
skippercollector Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 A double agent (either for the local police or for the FBI or Interpol) can also be called a mole. 1
ascendotum Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 A mole like Cindy Crawford has, no problemo, but when you start talking about clusters they are a little off putting. If I was dating a girl and she had quite few over her body, I could live with it, but if they were prominent and big it would be too distracting. They are easy enough to get removed I thought and I havn't seen too many girls with moles that detracted from their beauty. One woman I knew comes to mind though. She had a big raised mole high up in the middle of her chest. It was really hard to talk to her and not be distracted by it. A little like this..
FitChick Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 You could always use the cancer scare tactic to get someone to get rid of them. Sometimes they are the size of pencil erasers. Eeeeww! Just see a dermatologist, please. It doesn't hurt and it's very quick.
FrustratedStandards Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I've never dated anyone with moles before... ...but after reading your description, yeah, I think I would be turned off too, especially if it's right on his face. Poor guy though. It's not something he can help. And surgery is expensive and painful.
JesseJames Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Mole man. ha ha ha I wish I got the women like him. I have a diagonal slit-scar on my upper lip and a little mole eight inches from my bellybutton. I think they are both cute. I do get superficial though on account that I'm a freak in some ways, like naturally flat feet and such. My own body makes me want a normal-looking woman with a perfect body. A couple little moles somewhere isn't going to bother me though unless they are on or near the unmentionables. Of course I despise tattoos, piercings and jewelry and such. I cannot wait until these fads are gone, right along with blue jeans... and the fat fad. I may need to look toward the Amish to find. I'll just ride the horse on over with a pitchfork and boots, perhaps a razor blade and some shaving cream and they'll get the picture.
kaylan Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 (edited) mooooooole moley moley moley moley If everything else felt right and you broke with someone simple because of a mole, then Id assume you and those like you arent too bright. Just being honest. Dont complain about a lack of good mates in the future if youd dump someone for something so minor. Edited March 12, 2012 by kaylan 3
UBFeelinMe Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I'm one of those people with moles all over my body..not the big bumpy type..just spots. I really don't see why you should be bothered by them. Do you reject people that have freckles? I understand that we all have our preferences, but OP I sincerely hope that your skin is immaculate, your breasts are perfect, and you have a big juicy ass (as well as a cute face). Because if you don't, then you are indeed shallow and overly picky.
Author LifesBeachy Posted March 12, 2012 Author Posted March 12, 2012 Don't be offended for the last few... I'm some anonymous person here. And I asked how to get over it. Btw, no, I don't mind freckles.. I just never liked moles! Petpeeve. And sure if a guy wasn't that attracted to me and it bugged him, I'd hope either a) he'd get over it, or b) do the diplomatic thing and not drag me along and be bothered by it. Ubefeelinme, being picky is anyone's right, actually... As for you, lil wayne, my "brightness" has nothing to do whether or not I dump a guy based on such things. Sure, it could make me a @#$% though.
aj22one Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Some moles can be a turn on. Not gonna lie. I guess it just depends like with everything else.
SadGrl Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I am turned off by people who post on dating forums, negative things about moles. I bet in older age, they will all have giant moles all over their bodies as karma!
FitChick Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Everyone needs to know how to do this. It's especially important to check your SO's back and scalp because s/he can't do it her/himself. Otherwise see a dermatologist for an annual skin checkup.
PFlower Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Why so many women, are turned off by giving oral sex?
zengirl Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I've never been a fan of moles. Never had it be the crucial deciding issue in dating a guy or anything, but no, I don't like them. I do love freckles. Back freckles are the cutest thing on a guy to me. But moles? Yes, they're kind of ick.
PFlower Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Zengirl, would you take a mole man with a big penis, or a non-mole Man with a small penis?
96Firebird Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Sounds like I am in trouble, I have a mole, on my face, as well as freckles. AND red hair, and pale skin. However, I consider myself to be the hottest ginger I know, and don't do bad for myself...
Feelin Frisky Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 I don't have them and haven't had them be an issue with anyone. A "beauty mark" is a mole and one in the right place on a woman's face can actually be a flaw that makes her even more stunningly unique. But of course they are unsightly growths generally and can be a turn off to both genders based upon size and location. Robert De Niro's mole seems to make sense on his face. San Francisco Giants baseball player Carlos Beltran was called "the mole" when he played for the Mets because of the big mole he has near his ear. He is a very handsome caballero though but the location of the mole make it something I would want to get rid of if it were me.
Arkaeology Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Sounds like I am in trouble, I have a mole, on my face, as well as freckles. AND red hair, and pale skin. However, I consider myself to be the hottest ginger I know, and don't do bad for myself... Are you single and ready to mingle? I like women and their moles. I specially love freckles. I think they look cute and sexy on pale skin as long as they're not the super dark kind. I myself have a big mole on my right wrist and a couple of medium/large ones on my back. I think their sexy but then again I already feel good about myself and don't really care about what others think.
kaylan Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Don't be offended for the last few... I'm some anonymous person here. And I asked how to get over it. Btw, no, I don't mind freckles.. I just never liked moles! Petpeeve. And sure if a guy wasn't that attracted to me and it bugged him, I'd hope either a) he'd get over it, or b) do the diplomatic thing and not drag me along and be bothered by it. Ubefeelinme, being picky is anyone's right, actually... As for you, lil wayne, my "brightness" has nothing to do whether or not I dump a guy based on such things. Sure, it could make me a @#$% though. And bitches arent to bright though are they?
Jane2011 Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 A bunch that are clustered together and raised would probably be a turn off to me, but if there aren't too many, they're spread out, and not "raised" - not a big deal. I have some on my body. A couple I like because they're super-tiny and un "raised" (one on my left hand, one on my left shoulder). I actually have one near my breast which is a little larger than the ones I just mentioned (and "raised"), but it's still small enough not to bother me. Plus it's all by itself and not a cluster or anything... I've not dated a guy who I thought had too many. Usually when they have them at all, it's in the same style that I have them...just here and there and not ghastly.
Author LifesBeachy Posted March 12, 2012 Author Posted March 12, 2012 And bitches arent to bright though are they? Too* Guess not, Weezy, Guess not.......
kaylan Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Too* Guess not, Weezy, Guess not....... A typo correction? How clever you are. Very bright of you to notice I missed one letter.
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