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PhillyDude Established Member

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I was bored last night and came across this profile and the woman in it looked a little odd so I kept looking and realized he was a TS. Then I sent it a message saying

 

"YOU AIN'T FOOLING NOBODY"

 

LOL.

 

Now all of a sudden when I was checking my messages I noticed that user no longer had a pic and when I clicked on the username It said no one has an account by this name. So i guess someone reported IT LOL

 

I mean it was so obvious. Why do gay men always try and be so sneaky? They have this fantasy of being with a STRAIGHT GUY and don't understand that that fantasy can never be fulfilled because they are not...WOMEN. So to anyone on OKC, make sure you look at those pictures closely

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Ignorance is no excuse for cruelty.

 

She probably just blocked you, and so now it appears to you that she doesn't have an account. At least I hope so, jackass.

They have this fantasy of being with a STRAIGHT GUY and don't understand that that fantasy can never be fulfilled because they are not...WOMEN.

I only half-wonder how you know so much about the latent fantasies of gay men... :rolleyes:

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Why is that funny? don't you have anything better to do with your spare time?

 

Do you know any TS people? Probably not. I do. One of them is my best friends from college. "she" was born a hermaphrodite. Has had to take hormones her entire life. That was after the doctors decided which gender she was closer to at birth.

 

She's struggled immensely to find love.

 

I find your actions to be incredibly mean spirited.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Ignorance is no excuse for cruelty.

 

She probably just blocked you, and so now it appears to you that she doesn't have an account. At least I hope so, jackass.

 

I only half-wonder how you know so much about the latent fantasies of gay men... :rolleyes:

 

Because years ago on the phone dating service gay guys would be on the women's side trying to come across a straight guy who was on the down low.

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Why is that funny? don't you have anything better to do with your spare time?

 

Do you know any TS people? Probably not. I do. One of them is my best friends from college. "she" was born a hermaphrodite. Has had to take hormones her entire life. That was after the doctors decided which gender she was closer to at birth.

 

She's struggled immensely to find love.

 

I find your actions to be incredibly mean spirited.

 

Well a TS is not supposed to be on the women's side of OKC

Badsingularity Established Member

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Well a TS is not supposed to be on the women's side of OKC

 

Where are they supposed to be?

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Where are they supposed to be?

 

craiglist has a section for them

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TR

 

 

 

 

 

TROLL!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Well a TS is not supposed to be on the women's side of OKC

 

You don't get it. My friend was made a woman by doctors and hormones. She had no choice. The doctors more or less flipped a coin when she was born, and took the parts that weren't quite right and made them right so she could be somewhat functional.

 

so, yea, now she has some features that some would construe as being masculine. She's doing the best with what she was born with.

 

It hurts me to think that she might have come along people like you when she was on OKC.

 

Oh, by the way, she's been dating a very nice man for over 6 months now. They are talking about marriage and adopting kids.

 

Don't you have enough problems finding someone for yourself? Why could you possibly give a damn what TS's do on OkC??

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Cee Established Member

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Your thread was like a shot in my heart. Your careless bigotry made me sad.

 

You and I are privileged to live our lives without getting the ****e kicked out of us for choosing to find dates and love. Your message to that woman on OKC showed how arrogant and blind you are. Her life is hard enough as it is and you thought it would be great to grind your heel into her foot.

 

I would feel sorry for you, but I will reserve my sympathy to the trans men and women who face violence and murder for not fitting into a binary society. But thank you for reminding me to stand up against hate and bigotry.

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You don't get it. My friend was made a woman by doctors and hormones. She had no choice. The doctors more or less flipped a coin when she was born, and took the parts that weren't quite right and made them right so she could be somewhat functional.

 

so, yea, now she has some features that some would construe as being masculine. She's doing the best with what she was born with.

 

It hurts me to think that she might have come along people like you when she was on OKC.

 

Oh, by the way, she's been dating a very nice man for over 6 months now. They are talking about marriage and adopting kids.

 

Don't you have enough problems finding someone for yourself? Why could you possibly give a damn what TS's do on OkC??

 

 

Because i never saw anything like that on OKC

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Wow OP. You just showed yourself to be ignorant and bigoted. Good job.

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1. You need to look up the definition of transsexual. A transsexual is a person who has changed genders.

 

2. A transsexual woman is not a gay man. And your ideas about gay man are bizarre.

 

3. No matter what you think of transsexual people, or how confused you may be about how to describe a transsexual person, it is NEVER acceptable to refer to a person as IT :mad::mad::mad:

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kaylan Established Member

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Also, Ive come across a few TS profiles. Once I notice it, I move on. Why the hell do you need to harass someone? Grow up bro.

 

Hell we had a mtf TS at my college. These people are not "its" and they deserve to live their life just like everyone else.

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OP.. there are several words to describe you.

But if i wrote them, all you'd see is asterisks.

so no word exists to truly describe the kind of f****** A****** you actually are.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Damm i'm sorry i offended so many people for saying TS was on OKC trying to be sneaky

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I have a friend who is transsexual, and I would hate for her to experience that, too.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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forget about it, sorry for my poor attempt at humor, closed thread

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No matter what you think of transsexual people, or how confused you may be about how to describe a transsexual person, it is NEVER acceptable to refer to a person as IT :mad::mad::mad:

 

This!!!

 

Beyond showing ignorance and bigotry, the above really stood out. It's as though the OP doesn't recognize TS people as...well...people, but things. Maddening and so very sad.

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forget about it, sorry for my poor attempt at humor, closed thread

 

Live and learn.

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It seems fit to mention that the situation RedRobin is describing, while more common than you think, doesn't really fit most definitions of transexual. It shouldn't matter whether it can be viewed as a choice or whether anything surgical has occurred at all.

 

& I call bull**** on trying to be funny. You may have found it funny, but the bottom line is you have some ass-backwards views about both sexuality and how to treat people.

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I don't understand why you are so proud of yourself. I suggest you just ignore people who aren't directly bothering you other than by existing.

 

Do I enjoy the idea that there are men trying to pass themselves off as women to be with other men unkowingly... NO! Thats some crying game sht. BUT I don't think its right to go around telling off obvious transexuals.

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I don't understand why you are so proud of yourself. I suggest you just ignore people who aren't directly bothering you other than by existing.

 

Do I enjoy the idea that there are men trying to pass themselves off as women to be with other men unkowingly... NO! Thats some crying game sht. BUT I don't think its right to go around telling off obvious transexuals.

 

I agree with this. I personally would never ever date a transexual. But I'd never taunt one either. That's just unnecessary.

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The moment I read the title I smiled knowing that you were not going to get the response you accepted. Fun times.

 

Don't be ignorant, I find the whole TS/transgender thing repulsive but you have to respect them as human beings.

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