theories_galore Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 Just wondering if you were dating somebody, and he/she came out and said they didn't want anything serious. So, you stopped talking to them then they came back wanting to try it again. Has this ever happened to you? Did you take them back? How long did it take and what was the story behind it?
FrustratedStandards Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Actually, i'm always the one who says I don't want anything serious lol and I never go back. Why would you if they don't want casual?
starla33 Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Just wondering if you were dating somebody, and he/she came out and said they didn't want anything serious. So, you stopped talking to them then they came back wanting to try it again. Has this ever happened to you? Did you take them back? How long did it take and what was the story behind it? Yes when I dated aholes it happened a lot. I would take them back and nothing would change...they still didn't want anything serious.
Author theories_galore Posted March 12, 2012 Author Posted March 12, 2012 Yes when I dated aholes it happened a lot. I would take them back and nothing would change...they still didn't want anything serious. How long did they wait to come back? How long did the second go-around last? Thanks for the reply
starla33 Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 How long did they wait to come back? How long did the second go-around last? Thanks for the reply One a few days. Another 2 weeks. Usually about a month or 2 with another guy that would not stay dumped.
spiderowl Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Guys may well value you more if you turn them down for a casual relationship. They will realise you are worthy of respect and may make renewed efforts to win your favour. However, the question is are they likely to want anything serious as a result? Some might but others will just want to score a higher prize. My suggestion is to get to know these guys as people before you decide what you want to do. The ones in it for the short term will move on. Some guys don't get attached easily, only when they really know a girl's personality and not just the way she looks. Some rarely get attached and are always on the move. You can only try to spot these guys but they are a nuisance.
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