Bucky Badger Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 I had been looking for a date to a fraternity formal for a little while, and I recently was given the idea to ask Jenny (a girl [friend] of mine). One thing that sort of pulled me away from that idea was that Jenny liked a friend of mine, who is also in my fraternity some time ago. He does not "like" her back, and she seems that she is no longer interested in him and has moved on. So, I was given the idea of asking Jenny by one of Jenny's good girl friends. I asked her friend if she would sort of scout out the situation and see if she would like to go with me. When the friend responded, she told me that Jenny said, "Oh yeah, I'm going with him to their formal." Him, referring to myself. I was kind of like, "huh?" But, I will not complain. I was sitting at dinner with another friend of mine two nights ago and while we were sitting there, Jenny and another friend of hers come and talk to us for a little while. After 15 mins, they sit down at our table and continue talking to us. The whole time, Jenny was sort of starring me down, if you will. I know she wants me to ask her, but I didn't ask her at dinner because I didn't want to exclude her friend, because another girl they arrived with was asked by the friend I was at dinner with originally. I felt like a total dumb*** after that. However, she was going to come over to the fraternity house that evening to visit a girl who was there. I waited there until 12:30, when she informed her friend that she wasn't coming. Today was the start of our Spring Break as well. To add, I texted her two days ago, wishing her a fun Spring Break. After like 2 texts, she sends a "Well, I gotta go. Have a good break!" I feel that she is either pissed, upset, or mad. Then, I texted her today, asking her to call me when convenient for her, (to ask her to the dance) and she texted me back saying she can't call me until Wednesday or later. ??????
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 This is really just a plain and simple scenario. You really just need to call her (not ask her to call you) and ask her out. Stop pussy-footing around, It's already made you look bad/cowardly, because you had an opportunity and even had a friend on the inside ask about more details. On Wednesday, you need to pick up your balls, then pick up the phone and give her a call and ask her. Don't sweat it, don't panic, don't over-think it, just do it. Because If she already likes you/wants to go, then all you're doing right now is wasting time and annoying the hell out of her because she's thinking what is wrong with you at this point, so regardless of the answer you need to ask in which is already sounds like it's a yes, so stop worrying so much and start acting at least with some confidence, call her and tell her you you wanted to ask her to the formal. Don't beat around the bush much, just get right into it and then after you get your answer get off the phone. Just keep it simple, that's all it takes.
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