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I am fantasizing about my husband sleeping with other women.. is this normal?

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BUT if he cheated on me , i know I would leave him... its just a fantasy.. i cant help thinking about it.. :cool: I like the visual image of my husband having sex with another woman.

:cool::eek::confused::confused::confused:

FrustratedStandards Established Member

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The way I see it, a fantasy is a fantasy for a reason :) There is no such thing as a bad or wrong fantasy.

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The Blue Knight Established Member

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BUT if he cheated on me , i know I would leave him... its just a fantasy.. i cant help thinking about it.. :cool: I like the visual image of my husband having sex with another woman.

:cool::eek::confused::confused::confused:

 

I believe my ex-wife experienced this to some degree toward the time when our marriage began to head in a different direction due to value changes in her personality. I have to ask. Has your perception or attitude about your husband in recent months taken a change?

Feelin Frisky Established Member

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My view is that everyone is entitled to their fantasies and if whatever it is is what it takes to push you over the edge here and there when your body is telling you you're due for an orgasm and you're going for it, it OK and you shouldn't feel guilty or worse for it. I don't think anyone can say what is "normal" because few people admit fantasies that may be unflattering to them to anyone else. But surely there are billions of people reaching for linkages in their mind during sex or masturbation that turn them on that they would never act out or want to see acted out. You fantasy is normal for you but it puts you in the less usual category of involving your spouse with others. I'm the opposite--if I really love someone it rakes me the wrong way to think of them occupied with others sexually. If however we break up and I hate her, maybe I might have an angry fantasy of her doing something really piggy. ;)

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The way I see it, a fantasy is a fantasy for a reason :) There is no such thing as a bad or wrong fantasy.

I agree with this! I have A LOT of fantasies, ONLY kept in my mind, that I'd hate to ever see happen in reality! I enjoy keeping them in my mind for a reason. :)

jobaba Established Member

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Normal. I used to imagine my ex-girlfriend having sex with other guys.

 

Big turn on for me.

 

The more different they were from me, the bigger of a turn on it was. Think 'BIG' guys. :lmao: One time a big black dude was hitting on her pretty shamelessly, and I used that image to 'fuel my wood' for a while. No shame. This is an anonymous forum, right?

 

I had a lot of lust for her and was 'into' her and our relationship relied a lot on tension. I don't do that with my current GF at all. The relationship is based on completely different parameters.

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Thieves Established Member

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In my opinion, it's very normal to fantasize about something like this. Women can be just as visual as men, which leads me to think that there's nothing wrong with you. In the past, I've usually fantasized about a significant other doing other women. More often than not, there's a focus on them giving the other girl very 'passionate' oral sex.

 

I'm not sure if I'd really go for it in real life, but maybe it'd be pretty interesting to find out. :lmao:

TaraMaiden Established Member

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Oh yes.

Frequently.

wouldn't it be great.

Anything for a quiet night....:lmao:

Badsingularity Established Member

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Yes you are normal.

The Blue Knight Established Member

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Oh yes.

Frequently.

wouldn't it be great.

Anything for a quiet night....:lmao:

 

O-U-C-H !!! :eek:

boaaaar Established Member

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I guess a fantasy about raping and killing little girls, then skinning them alive is not so bad....
uffff, I'm feeling better all of a sudden after reading your post. So my fantasy is not so bad after all, I guess that's nice to know :laugh:
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