TheSingleGuy Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 Would like to know from the women. A guy who you go out with once, but he doesn't get a second date. Generally, I assume you've met him in real life before you go out. Or if it's an online thing, you've seen his pictures. So I assume these guys aren't blowing it with their looks. You already knew what they looked like. Is it usually that, for whatever reason, you just feel like you'd be able to walk all over this man??? That his boundaries aren't solid???
SmileFace Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 No it just means I don't like him. After a first date I am know a little more about his personality and values and may not agree with them. Or he may do something really stupid on a first date like, talk about his ex the whole date and refer to her as his gf,yell at the people in the mall who try to sell stuff because he thinks they are losers or ask if I am shaved down there. However most of my first dates never happening has been an equal draw for me and the guys.
mesmerized Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 No, it's usually about something he did that put me off. For example I went out with one guy, I didn't order anything and at the end he told me he doesn't know if he should pay for me after dragging paying the bill for like half an hour. I was shocked I said :I DIDN'T ORDER ANYTHING! Mind you the whole bill was under 10 dollars (his food). Of course I didn't respond to his texts after. Basically if they do or say something that makes me feel like they are not a good match at all, I wouldn't want to see them again.
FitChick Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 I went out with one guy, I didn't order anything and at the end he told me he doesn't know if he should pay for me after dragging paying the bill for like half an hour. I was shocked I said :I DIDN'T ORDER ANYTHING! Maybe he wanted you to pay the tip.
mesmerized Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 Maybe he wanted you to pay the tip. Why would I??? lol I had to watch him eating his food and he didn't even ask me if I want some too. I wouldn't expect someone to pay for my meal or tip when they didn't eat anything. He was just rude and cheap.
Author TheSingleGuy Posted March 12, 2012 Author Posted March 12, 2012 Ok, so when women say they're not attracted to men they can walk all over, usually this is figured out much later. Do I have this right?
mortensorchid Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 THis isn't enough information to go on. If I never want to see someone again, it's because it just didn't "feel right". Some say I am looks oriented, but that's not always the case. Can you give an example of a conversation you had over a get together? Maybe that will help answers.
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