ThatDudeXO Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 Long story short she says she doesn't love me anymore. Our good times were amazing, some reminders make me smile and hurt me that she couldn't bother to work it out. It's been almost 3 weeks NC and she seems to be completely fine with not having me in her life at all after a 3 year relationship. I am healing and I don't feel much pain anymore but I still love her to bits when I know I shouldn't be. I know by how she is and how she is acting, being in love with her only hurts me more. I am no longer special to her, she no longer has a place in her heart for me and I so desperately want to feel the same. I should not be in love with her, I don't want to be in love with her. I was never a bad boyfriend and I don't deserve this pain. How can I fall out of love? How can I stop missing her? How can I convince myself she isn't special to me when I know she shouldn't be? I am using NC to help me heal but I'd like to know of any thought processes or exercises to get this b*tch out of my heart now! I believe I am healing but I am still deeply in love! Help?!?!?
marqueemoon4 Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 It's always the same story on this board. It hurts man.. only thing that will fix it is time, space and self improvement.
CopingGal Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 I read somewhere that if someone can break up with another person and not mourn and not have sadness, then they were not invested in the relationship to begin with. My relationship with my ex is living proof of that. Keep NC going. Remind yourself that if she can break up with you and not mourn, she probably wasn't that into you to begin with. Remind yourself of the things she did that you did not like. Of course, therapy is always a good option too. 1
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